Selection of partner(s) for Bisexual men

[LSC1962]

Hi, I'm a bisexual white male, 62 years old and have just started practicing with other guys within the last 4 years. I'm a bottom who also likes oral sex.
Due to a sparse selection of guys where I'm located, it is really hard to find good, clean reliable partners here. I've settled on a couple of guys my age that are 1.5 to 2 hours away from me.
What is the best criteria for having an ongoing male partner you can rely on, especially when there are few guys available? I have been desperate for sex sometimes and just take the nearest available guy, usually with poor results. Is it best to just wait and have fun with the reliable partner(s), or should I try to get off as often as I can with another guy?
Just looking for opinions here please.

 

[BiBtm64]

Hi, I'm a bisexual white male, 62 years old and have just started practicing with other guys within the last 4 years. I'm a bottom who also likes oral sex.
Due to a sparse selection of guys where I'm located, it is really hard to find good, clean reliable partners here. I've settled on a couple of guys my age that are 1.5 to 2 hours away from me.
What is the best criteria for having an ongoing male partner you can rely on, especially when there are few guys available? I have been desperate for sex sometimes and just take the nearest available guy, usually with poor results. Is it best to just wait and have fun with the reliable partner(s), or should I try to get off as often as I can with another guy?
Just looking for opinions here please.

I find hookup sex with whoever is available can be hit or miss. Sometimes I think it's worth taking the chance and seeing how it goes, other times I think why waste my time preparing, looking, finding, only to be let down. Whether you try for whatever sex is available or seek more compatible partners depends on what works best for you, and how badly you need sex on any particular day.

In terms of the criteria for partners, it depends on what you're looking for, what they're looking for, and if there's compatibility in being able to satisfy each other. Fuck buddies or friends with benefits are great, I've had excellent fuck buddy arrangements and when you get to know what makes each other tick, the sex can be much more satisfying than a hookup.

It depends if you're wanting only sex, or something more meaningful, and what their expectations are in that sense. Guys your age might be lonely and looking for a relationship, especially if openly gay. Will they feel used if you only meet for sex, or will they be only wanting sex and be satisfied with getting off? That's a conversation to have with a potential fuck buddy.

If you're the closet, can you trust them to keep your secret.

If they're also bisexual, in the closet, and depending on their experience, will they feel awkward afterward. I find with other bisexual guys who are finding their way that it's good to take it a step at a time and get them to feel comfortable and relaxed about it.

Would I travel 1.5 to 2 hours for good sex with a buddy? Absolutely, if I knew what I was getting. What works for you is up to you. Good luck!

 

[LSC1962]

I find hookup sex with whoever is available can be hit or miss. Sometimes I think it's worth taking the chance and seeing how it goes, other times I think why waste my time preparing, looking, finding, only to be let down. Whether you try for whatever sex is available or seek more compatible partners depends on what works best for you, and how badly you need sex on any particular day.

In terms of the criteria for partners, it depends on what you're looking for, what they're looking for, and if there's compatibility in being able to satisfy each other. Fuck buddies or friends with benefits are great, I've had excellent fuck buddy arrangements and when you get to know what makes each other tick, the sex can be much more satisfying than a hookup.

It depends if you're wanting only sex, or something more meaningful, and what their expectations are in that sense. Guys your age might be lonely and looking for a relationship, especially if openly gay. Will they feel used if you only meet for sex, or will they be only wanting sex and be satisfied with getting off? That's a conversation to have with a potential fuck buddy.

If you're the closet, can you trust them to keep your secret.

If they're also bisexual, in the closet, and depending on their experience, will they feel awkward afterward. I find with other bisexual guys who are finding their way that it's good to take it a step at a time and get them to feel comfortable and relaxed about it.

Would I travel 1.5 to 2 hours for good sex with a buddy? Absolutely, if I knew what I was getting. What works for you is up to you. Good luck!

Yes all great points. I'm really starting to lean towards just having 2-3 guys I play with whenever we can. We all agree we want to play together, and I find that exciting as well.

 

[magicdick]

Hi, I'm a bisexual white male, 62 years old and have just started practicing with other guys within the last 4 years. I'm a bottom who also likes oral sex.
Due to a sparse selection of guys where I'm located, it is really hard to find good, clean reliable partners here. I've settled on a couple of guys my age that are 1.5 to 2 hours away from me.
What is the best criteria for having an ongoing male partner you can rely on, especially when there are few guys available? I have been desperate for sex sometimes and just take the nearest available guy, usually with poor results. Is it best to just wait and have fun with the reliable partner(s), or should I try to get off as often as I can with another guy?
Just looking for opinions here please.

After the shuttering of CL, I found getting guys got harder, but I learned to stop being so choosy, to choose quantity over quality. It's working with the added benefit of finding a few new lovers who are great in the sack, men I once wouldn't have given much thought to.

 

[snakeeater1]

If your a bi married man, like me and you find it hard to find partners in a rural area, try to find one married bi man who just likes to do exactly what you want to do! I know it’s hard, BUT if you can find this guy, make an arrangement with him to meet every so often at a particular location, and make him your sex buddy! Then you won’t waste time cruising dangerous areas and making costly mistakes! Trust each other to keep it secret and don’t stray! …I had a married bi suck buddy for years and it worked out fine. He liked to have his cock sucked and I loved to do it!!…

 

[magicdick]

If your a bi married man, like me and you find it hard to find partners in a rural area, try to find one married bi man who just likes to do exactly what you want to do! I know it’s hard, BUT if you can find this guy, make an arrangement with him to meet every so often at a particular location, and make him your sex buddy! Then you won’t waste time cruising dangerous areas and making costly mistakes! Trust each other to keep it secret and don’t stray! …I had a married bi suck buddy for years and it worked out fine. He liked to have his cock sucked and I loved to do it!!…

Good advice.