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Rolyo85 said:
You should check out his anti-gay blog before giving him your sympathy.
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One thing...as others have said...I don't think he is "ex gay" at all...I think he is a prisoner of his own fears....and so on a strictly personal level...I do have some sympathy for him because I am well aware of the external forces that work 24/7 to create these conditions in which he is living in fear and shame...

I have to believe that somewhere deep inside himself he didn't want to grow up to be such a collassal douchebag.

In my eyes...sympathy is not such a good thing...it would be better if I had some empathy for him and I have none. I cannot relate to his fear and I especially hate the manner in which he acts out because his actions and words potentially can affect and damage lots of good people and he is part of a huge problem.

I don't know if that makes any sense but sympathy and empathy are two different things entirely in my opinion.
 
eastofeden said:
One thing...as others have said...I don't think he is "ex gay" at all...I think he is a prisoner of his own fears....and so on a strictly personal level...I do have some sympathy for him because I am well aware of the external forces that work 24/7 to create these conditions in which he is living in fear and shame...

I have to believe that somewhere deep inside himself he didn't want to grow up to be such a collassal douchebag.

In my eyes...sympathy is not such a good thing...it would be better if I had some empathy for him and I have none. I cannot relate to his fear and I especially hate the manner in which he acts out because his actions and words potentially can affect and damage lots of good people and he is part of a huge problem.

I don't know if that makes any sense but sympathy and empathy are two different things entirely in my opinion.
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I agree with you. And there are things we shouldn't force ourselves to either sympathize or empathize with, at least in my view. I can appreciate that someone's background and influences and the way they were raised brought them to a certain point or predisposed them to be more or less capable of handling certain things than other people, and I can feel sorry for them for that, but where they choose to go with that as capable adults has to reflect something about them and their values too. People aren't just a confluence of what people drilled into them growing up.
 
And Kien Wrote:

tongue punch his fart box!!
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I like the way you're thinking.

But I suspect his ass is so tight you couldn't get a needle up his fudge hole.
 
xbuzzerx said:
Alright but here's the rules, Scaelle you have to speak to him in Malay, I'll use Spanish-Japanese, Rolyo speak Bulgarian and Laufey speak Icelandic, then he'll think we're speaking in tongues and sent by god to him.
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That's hot!

And before I leave I will tell him "By the way... Thor says hello" :lol:
 
I'm sorry, sugar, do you have a problem with the concept of attractive people getting more breaks than unattractive ones? Sucks to be you if that's the case.

The air must be hard to breathe on such a high saddle...
 
Maybe I'm a small person for finding so much joy in his getting outed... is it outing when you were gay, and then you "weren't" gay, but now you "are again"?

Ex-gays do so much more damage than maybe we understand. They don't really damage us directly, because we know better. Someone comes up to us and says, "I'm not gay anymore and you don't have to be either", we laugh. It's an outrageous statement to make. It's hilarious. So we shrug it off. No problem.

But these jerks fuel the religious organizations. My father-in-law is a pastor and he believes in ex-gay ministries. He and his wife LOVE hearing stories about ex-gays. They mention it every once in a while. For them, ex-gays legitimize their bigotry. They give hope to all these people who would have us revert "back to" hetrosexuality.

When I was in university, my husband (he was my boyfriend at the time) and I joined the campus Christian group. When they found out we were gay, things changed. They urged us to visit NARTH, email Exodus, and listen to vlogs by Ex-gays... The Christian group could name 20 ex-gays off the top of their heads! So they are more relevant than maybe we give them credit for. Ex-gays have a following.

I can't help but think if there were fewer or no ex-gays to fall back on, my religious friends would be less likely to believe in it.
 
Huntneo(PT) said:
I'm sorry, sweetheart, you seem to have missed the point in my quoting you.

This isn't about attractive people getting "breaks" (and speaking of which, I don't think the subject of this thread is), this is about you speaking for everyone when you made (what I felt to be) a bullshit remark as if it were fact.
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I'm still failing to see anything in your responses to me other than some knee-jerk "I'm empathic to everyone, not just pretty people!" Reaction. Kudos to you. So does everyone else.
 
He obviously slipped into temptation due to the unrelenting pressure of the homosexual cabal. Maybe he can join OverCum...uh, I mean OverCome.


Lex
 
RazorzEdge88 said:
I'm good at reading between the lines. Tough shit if it bothers you.
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It really doesn't because you're certainly not demonstrating it here. I feel nothing but loathing and disgust for that loser, and you trying to make it as if I've posted some sad lamentation of the "poor pretty boy" is entirely your invention, in your head and you're responsible for it.

It's also trolling.
 
Rolyo85 said:
It really doesn't because you're certainly not demonstrating it here. I feel nothing but loathing and disgust for that loser, and you trying to make it as if I've posted some sad lamentation of the "poor pretty boy" is entirely your invention, in your head and you're responsible for it.

It's also trolling.
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Eh. He's 'cute'... but he's not THAT cute. "Pretty Boy" is stretching it, IMO.
 
Huntneo(PT) said:
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Still missing the point.

This conversation is over.
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Not at all. You are bitching at me for supposedly making a sweeping claim when it's "JUST MY OPINION", which should go without saying. Or is anybody here moron enough to think I am Metatron and speak with the voice of God? No, everything I say is my opinion. It is idiotic that you'd start an argument over it.

That said, the psychological response to seeing good looking people fuck it up is different than seeing unattractive people fuck it up. that's a fact, and if either of the two of us cared enough for this dumb argument, I'd go look for research to support it.
 
I love these "born-again straights". They seem awfully confused.
 
loveguys72 said:
They're not confused, just desperate not to be who they are. Which I find very sad. :(
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Well I meant they are confused if they think they are fooling anyone. Most can see right through their charade.
 
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