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... I suddenly realized so many of my struggles with bottoming were tied up in this fear of embarrassment/grossing out the top. And I'm not talking about some major accident or anything--for the most part I think that can be prevented--but rather this unrealistic expectation to be 100% clean 100% of the time. It turns out it's not the end of the world (if you're with a top who's reasonable, anyways).
^QFT
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