Sex Addiction

[SuperNatural]

Ok I'm with this guy; who I think likes sex alittle too much; It's like everyday he comes from work; he just want to flip me over and just do LIke EVERy day, I mean I like him alot but I don't think my body can take it, a little advice please without sounding like a down-er

 

[KaraBulut]

Is the issue that he likes sex too much or that he is treating you like a semen receptacle?

 

[hylas]

having a high sex drive does not make one an addict.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_addiction

Sexologists have not reached any consensus regarding whether sexual addiction exists or, if it does, how to describe the phenomenon.


poor phrasing aside, maybe this can be solved easily by just saying "baby, i love you and im hot for you, but i dont want to have sex every single day." have you even mentioned your dissatisfaction to your boyfriend?

also, would it be acceptable for you and him to sometimes do other sexual activities than him topping you?

 

[rareboy]

I mean I like him alot but I don't think my body can take it, a little advice please without sounding like a down-er

The answer is right here.

You like him, but apparently aren't in love with him.

You both need to reassess this relationship to see if you are each getting what you want from it.

 

[altlover85]

Ok I'm with this guy; who I think likes sex alittle too much; It's like everyday he comes from work; he just want to flip me over and just do LIke EVERy day, I mean I like him alot but I don't think my body can take it, a little advice please without sounding like a down-er

Are you boyfriends?

 

[Seasoned]

Sex addiction is real and there are several 12-step programs dealing with it. The are collectively called S programs. SA, SAA, SCA, and SLAA are the programs I know something about. SCA, Sexual Complusives Anonymous, is the one which seems to work best for gays.

Do a search to see what they have to say and how they define sex addiction.

Whatever your partner is being a considerate lover he is not. You have a responsibility to tell him your thoughts and feelings. Being in a relationship with an active addict of any type brings out co-dependency issues, which will make you equally nuts.

There's hope but only with the willingness of both parties to change.

Good luck to you.

 

[Flexuality]

Sex addiction is characterized by a lack of control over sexual impulses and preoccupations, rather than the amount of sex per se. A wide range of sexual drives and frequency of sexual acts can be completely normal. You can read more about it on a post in my blog (I'm a psychiatrist who studies and teaches sex and sexuality).

The good news is that he desires you enough to have sex on a daily basis. The bad news is that you may have different preferences about how often you can get into it.

 

[EJMichaels]

Is this about the same over-8-inch guy in the BJ thread?

(And hi Flex )

 

[texan_slant]

he just want to flip me over and just do LIke EVERy day

It depends on the context of the experience. Does he literally just "flip you over," fuck you, and that's it?

Is that what happens all of the time, or has he taken the time to figure out what your turn-ons are? Maybe he thinks that this is what you like.

Is he tender about it at times, or does he show that he cares about you at all in other ways?

Have you communicated any of this with him? Maybe it's time that you do, and work this thing out before too much resentment builds.