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Sex Drives

brenAWESOMEdan

brenAWESOMEdan

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My partner and i have differing sex drives. I basically want it all the time. He's maybe more like once a week. Drives me fuckin crazy.

Do any of you guys and your boyfriends have lopsided libidos?
 
Me and my ex were like that. I know it sounds shallow but it's pretty much why we broke up. It was a relationship based on sex and when I wasn't getting any I didn't see any reason to continue the relationship.
 
Yes but it is not lopsided libidos more than we are both just lazy and want shit done to us with no reciprocation involved. At first we had sex ALL the time, 3 times a day and I would wake up in the middle of the night and mess around with him and stuff like that. It slowly started decreasing and now we do it once maybe twice a week. Its usually just when we are bored and there is nothing else to do. I mess around with him and grab his balls in the kitchen or in the bathroom and stuff like and he plays with me when we are watching TV and stuff like that but we don't do it, do it. I can't explain it either. I just came to the conclussion that we both would like it its just that we don't want to? LOL that makes no sense. I think I'm on the same boat you are! #-o
 
Swiffer WetJet said:
I'm on Risperidone, and before I got my second hormonal boost from entering adulthood I masturbated probably once every two weeks.

Since about a month and a half or two month ago, I've been masturbating much more frequently; even up to two or three times a day. I hope this sticks around... About a year ago, I got epididymitis (a bacterial infection in the sperm sacs in the scrotum) and suffered through aching testicles for almost seven months before I asked my doctor about it and found out all I had to do was jerk off more.
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interest story.
i was right, to de-stress ... cum as much as possible.
 
I_want_it_free said:
Yes but it is not lopsided libidos more than we are both just lazy and want shit done to us with no reciprocation involved. At first we had sex ALL the time, 3 times a day and I would wake up in the middle of the night and mess around with him and stuff like that. It slowly started decreasing and now we do it once maybe twice a week. Its usually just when we are bored and there is nothing else to do. I mess around with him and grab his balls in the kitchen or in the bathroom and stuff like and he plays with me when we are watching TV and stuff like that but we don't do it, do it. I can't explain it either. I just came to the conclussion that we both would like it its just that we don't want to? LOL that makes no sense. I think I'm on the same boat you are! #-o
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Don't get me wrong, i'm not sitting in the corner panting and licking my own balls (although i probably would if i could), there are times where i'm not in the mood. I guess we are the way we are and its ok. :) We were much more frequent in the beginning of the relationship. I can understand why guys would opt for an open relationship, but i don't think that's right for us.

Telstra said:
interest story.
i was right, to de-stress ... cum as much as possible.
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sound advice. i plan on following this prescription to the letter~
 
Ok so I thought about it some more and I think the reason it's working is because we talk about it. Lucky for us when we both get mad we say what we are thinking, hurt feelings be damned. We know what each other does in bed so there is nothing new or exiting there. We are both horny but we would rather masturbate and get it over with than go through the whole dirty process of sex. Its a chore. I don't know if that is a good thing or a bad thing for our relationship but we both know this and we've discussed it. We came to the conclusion that we know eachother and love eachother and want to be together. We also don't think an open relationship would work because we know we would get jelous. I don't know how that is going to work out for us in the long run though. We are only 23 and sometimes I wonder if we can spend our lives just masturbating and having sex only with eachother. It doesn't sound fun but I want to be with him and sex is just a part of our relationship. We enjoy the other time we spend together and its not like we aren't attracted to eachother. I see him and I think he looks hot I just don't want to have sex at the moment. I don't know, sometimes I wonder if maybe we should just be friends? That wouldn't work though because I would hate to see him with another guy. To be honest I wouldn't mind the sex part with another guy as long as its just to "get off" what worries me is him forming a relationship and falling for some other guy.

Ok, enough of me hijacking this thread.
 
i think i jacked off 6 times yesterday
i dont know what the hell was going on.... i kinda need a boyfriend lol

i dont know if he could keep up with me though
 
pancake said:
i think i jacked off 6 times yesterday
i dont know what the hell was going on.... i kinda need a boyfriend lol

i dont know if he could keep up with me though
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I'm constantly horny too. Wish you were closer. I'd volunteer to pound you. You've got a damn cute face too, the kind I like, with big innocent eyes.
 
brenAWESOMEdan said:
My partner and i have differing sex drives. I basically want it all the time. He's maybe more like once a week. Drives me fuckin crazy.

Do any of you guys and your boyfriends have lopsided libidos?
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Does your partner respect your sex drive. As in "Hey babe, I'm good for now but I think it would be really cool if you jacked off for me..."

If you're horny he can be part of a hot time even if he just watches the show. I don't think I would mind so much if my bf and I had different sex drives as long as he didn't expect me to lower mine to match his or vice versa... That way you can still share a sex life with different levels of horniness.
 
pwrbarboy said:
I'm constantly horny too. Wish you were closer. I'd volunteer to pound you. You've got a damn cute face too, the kind I like, with big innocent eyes.
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hell yeah
i need a good pounding... like i pretty much need to be drilled through the mattress and into the floor
 
I tried dating a 25 year old guy for awhile...he was soooo good looking. However, after we had dated about a week, he told me he thought there was something wrong...that I was oversexed.

He said that he jacked off or, when in a relationship, maybe had sex every three weeks or so. Often, when he was single, he said he went for a couple of months without jacking off.

Needless to say, we would see each other maybe once a month and fuck but nothing ever developed. He would often ask why, since we got along so well otherwise. I told him that my sex drive simply was not that low and he would laugh and then tell me "Oh, I remember now!"

Hell, I can't go a day without jacking off or fucking/getting fucked by the boy. Some days we'll fuck in the morning jack off and still have a romp at night.....

We also do a lot of talking which completes the relationship but I love sex and enjoying every part of his body/him mine!
 
Your not alone. Seeing as how I'm 19 and young and horny it seems like I'd have sexy every day at least 5 times a day (At least with my hand I do) but with a Sir it seems like that should happen some more.

Even though my Sir is alot older then me he has never been real sexual even when he was younger. He likes to have sex sometimes though. But he likes to stick with his philosophy about "Life not being about just sex"

My slave brother however has a high sex drive. I think we both compete in who's hornier but Sir thinks I'm the victor since i can jerk off in my sleep. I don't remember that >_>'

But my Sir refuses both me and my slave brother for sex sometimes. BUT WE DON'T GIVE UP. However sometimes when we are both there and we are both horny Sir just lets us play so he can get some peace. We've all played together before too.

Different people just have different sex drives. Unfortunately I think relationships wouldn't be able to survive without sex. You can love a person and love being with them and faithful to them. But the needs of sex might just make you regretful and miserable if you aren't getting any and might make you wish you could get it somewhere else. But I guess it's just all part of being human.

And contrary to popular belief. We youngins aren't horny ALL the time >.>
 
Well I haven't found anyone yet, but when I do I hope for their sake they have a high sex drive. I thought as you got older it was supposed to diminish, but mine has gotten worse (better?). I'm pretty sure I'm more over-sexed now than when I was in my teens. I have the urge to jack off multiple times a day and it shows no signs of slowing.
 
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bankside said:
Does your partner respect your sex drive. As in "Hey babe, I'm good for now but I think it would be really cool if you jacked off for me..."

If you're horny he can be part of a hot time even if he just watches the show. I don't think I would mind so much if my bf and I had different sex drives as long as he didn't expect me to lower mine to match his or vice versa... That way you can still share a sex life with different levels of horniness.
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oh totally. we just have different levels of desire for out and out fucking i guess
 
Lawnmowerman said:
Well I haven't found anyone yet, but when I do I hope for their sake they have a high sex drive. I thought as you got older it was supposed to diminish, but mine has gotten worse (better?). I'm pretty sure I'm more over-sexed now than when I was in my teens. I have the urge to jack off multiple times a day and it shows no signs of slowing.
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I think I'm in the same boat as you are. My sex drive is just as strong, if not stronger than when I was in my teens and early 20's.
 
My ex and I had a lot of difficulty because my antianxiety medication destroyed my sex drive, and it also made it very difficult for me to ejaculate. (I'd orgasm, but nothing would come out, and as far as he was concerned, if nothing came out, I didn't cum.)
 
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