Sex for the first time

[kidddo]

So I've finally decided to lose my virginity to this guy I really like.
I have a few questions...
Should I do anything to be prepared? Like shaving/ trimming down there? I'm not that hairy but it's just that in movies all the guys have practically no hair on either the front or the back.

 

[NineOfClubs]

If you're not excessively hairy, I'd say forget it.

Unless you live in some gay paradise, like West Hollywood, or some such.

It's going to be all about how you react, not look. You know, the moans, the kisses, etc..

And, good luck, by the way!

 

[Telstra]

just be very clean:
from teeth to foreskin, balls and ass hole and the rest is natural i think.

oh use condoms if you are into anal and enjoy.

 

[NineOfClubs]

I agree with Telstra, scrub everything, be very clean.

Then go at it like tigers.....

Or bunnies.....

Just go at it.

 

[G-Lexington]

Only a few suggestions.

* Bring condoms and lube, and use them.
* Don't eat a huge meal beforehand.
* Make sure he knows it's your first time, and you're looking to him to "steer".
* Have fun, damnit.

Lex

 

[threetimes]

dun expect perfection or hollywood moment. just have fun. it can messy and awkward. laugh it off. i did.

things they never show or you never see in porn:
1. at times, there can be shit smell.. at times, traces of shit on the condom
2. fart
3. having a strand of pubes in your mouth

i apologize if i am taking the romance out of your experience but i thought it be good if you know that these are normal and you dun have to be apologetic about it...

my partner was once very apologetic because there was shit smell and i lost my erection and cant perform. i wasnt apologetic abt it, and so shouldnt he.

sorry if im rambling too much. in summary. have fun : )

 

[landers]

Also, the lube can get everywhere, and I do mean everywhere. None of us want to make it seem like sex is anything other than a whole lot of fun (really, it's just great) but what you see in porn is not what you should expect. Hopefully you'll be too into it to even notice anything unpleasant that we've mentioned so far.

 

[fingers]

So I've finally decided to lose my virginity to this guy I really like.

How experienced is the other guy? I think that really helps. I lost my anal virginity a few months ago to a very experienced guy. He was gentle and nurturing through the whole process which really helped.