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Sex in Hotel Room

jeffhardylover8472

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sorry for making all these threads, but anyways, i have another story to tell:

i met this guy nearly 10 years older than me a few nights ago in the park and i was somehow really comfortable being with him. we made out a little bit, but it wasn't until the next night where he took me back to his hotel room for a night of sex (by the way, i FULLY lost my virginity). after we were done we watched a movie. after the movie, he wanted me to sleep with him but where he had to get up early i didn't want to be a distraction so i left and this was around 2 in the morning. it wasn't until i was halfway home where i all of a sudden felt uncomfortable with his age. i mean, i found someone who actually likes me but now I seem 2 have a slight problem. i told him earlier on today how i felt, but i seem to need more help.
 
I have a rather bizarre question for you. Why did you title this thread "sex in hotel room" when it's about your uncomfortableness with this guy's age? Just hoping to get more hits? :)

Lex
 
I have a rather bizarre question for you. Why did you title this thread "sex in hotel room" when it's about your uncomfortableness with this guy's age? Just hoping to get more hits? :)

Lex

well its something i've never done before... is there a way to fix that?
 
Too late man. Yea, my first time wasn't great. He isn't the one that I love. I should have done with Jeff , my big crush but That's K. What done is done. That guy was 2 years older than Im but He isn't bad. He is above average. He is a friend of mine. I don't do it with the strangers tho. Sorry to hear that man. Is He a hot guy? How old he is and you?
 
Too late man. Yea, my first time wasn't great. He isn't the one that I love. I should have done with Jeff , my big crush but That's K. What done is done. That guy was 2 years older than Im but He isn't bad. He is above average. He is a friend of mine. I don't do it with the strangers tho. Sorry to hear that man. Is He a hot guy? How old he is and you?

i'm only 18... he's 27. and he's not the hottest thing but he's not the ugliest either. and hes about half my height.
 
I saw ur pix Dude. U kinda handsome man ( without long hair). Fuck! He is a lucky guy, took ur virginity for nothing. Yea, He took advange of U cuz He knew U R horny and never been with any guys before. U should save it for someone who love U man. Yea, I lost control that nite. To me the first time very important. Do U still talk to him?
 
You're an adult.

The responsibility for your actions lie with you, not someone else.

He hasn't forced you or taken advantage of you.

It is just sex, for heaven's sakes.

Enjoy it for what it is.

If you aren't comfortable with the age difference, let the guy down gently and gracefully and move on.
 
i felt the same with my first time cuz he was 30 and im 19.....i let him down easy and i also freaked out and tried to convince myself i didn't like men but i just need someone my own age lol
 
Dude, You have to understand that When U were young, 17 or 18 and U R a home boy and U don't know life much. Somebody try to be nice to U, beg you and U feel so bad to let him down. Just start with a kiss and He has too much experience with men. U never got touch by men,kiss... and U just wanted to have sex so bad. U never think it twice. Man Im just a human being.
 
Did he ask you < Are U sure to want to do this?> And you said Yes? before he F U? ha ha. Sounds funny tho.Did You guys wear condom? U still talk to him and U guys wanna do it again or what?
 
U R a tall guy man and this guy is shorter than Im ha ha ha. Do U wanna sex with him again or what? Did he appreciate it that He is ur first? Do U still wanna get fucked again?
 
I don't even believe the direction this thread has taken...or maybe I do.

How did height end up being relevant to the OP's situation?
 
The situation is on the top. Lol the first post.

Well, I can't really offer much. People have already said it all. You had sex, time to move on. Maybe you feel guilty because it's a new experience? Next time meet someone. Get to know him and have sex much, much, much later on when you're both comfortable and know each other well.

Hookups are fun, but they're temporary relief. I've been with a couple hot guys, and although the sex was fun, they could never have the same feelings as I have with my current bf. To be with a guy who doesn't judge and makes me feel comfortable is a nice thing. I can't really go back and change time to stop myself from hooking up...so I move on and just not hook up.

But as for the age, that shouldn't be an issue as long as you're both legal and truly care for each other. I have friends who are dating people 10 years older. Next time stick to people around your age I guess
 
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