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My boyfriend of nearly a year has weird sex issues.
We're both tops and he's not really into anal so we've attempted it once (im bottomed) and he kinda sucked and it didn't go anywhere.
He won't let me suck him as he finds the feeling "weird" and also only about 50% of the time lets me touch his dick so basically my sex life consists of lying there and having him suck me off and him jacking off himself.

Lately I've been getting the urge to hook up with other guys and top them.
It's happening a lot and im not sure what to do as I doubt he is gonna bottom for me as he basically squirms if I even go near there.

HELP!
 
Have you told him how frustrated you are?
 
KaraBulut said:
Have you told him how frustrated you are?
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I think this is a great question.

How is the relationship going outside of the sex issues? If it's going shitty, it might be better to just end things.
 
Not to be rude but that was dumb. Two tops, who love anal? Break it off.
 
lucky7 said:
It's not dumb.. i've seen plenty of occasions where it's worked.
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Then how much did they really love anal (how would you know this anyway?) and how much accuracy was there in the "top" label, as opposed to "top" simply being what they thought they were at the time, when in truth they were actually versatile and didn't realize it until the relationship started.

I'm wondering this because it would seem to me that two tops that really liked anal might find it more difficult to simply become versatile.
 
lucky7 said:
So you think people are born "tops" and "bottoms"?
Otherwise, "realizing" you're versatile makes no sense.
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I believe that the top label can sometimes be a misnomer. Therefore someone realizing that they are versatile does make sense if someone takes the label of "top" to heart and doesn't realize that they could actually be versatile.

You didn't answer my question as to how you know people who are in a relationship where the two of them both liked anal sex and were tops. How did you know that they both liked anal sex?
 
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