sex... just because

[GL]

hypothetical:

a guy approaches you and tells you he wants to have sex with you.

you consider it, but ultimately you don't find him attractive for whatever reason.

would you still have sex with him?

just curious...

 

[gmoney]

Nope. Casual sex is one thing, but there has to at least be some physical attraction.

 

[Centexfarmer]

Um, put me down for no.

 

[G-Lexington]

I'm assuming I'm unattached, etc etc.

It depends. If he's not attractive, does he at least seem interesting? Is he someone I might want to chat with for awhile, see if I can bond with a bit? If so, I'd probably say, "I don't know. Maybe we should go some place quieter, talk a bit, see what happens?" If he seems uninterested, then I am, as well.

Lex

 

[justsimon]

Is he paying?

I'd say no.

 

[backpacker]

Plain and simple, no.

 

[Circe Infuria]

I'm a bit old school when it comes to sex.

While I would be extremely, extremely, extremely flattered that someone would want to have sex with me , I'm not capable of having casual sex, even if they're attractive (physically or otherwise).

I have to love you to have sex with you. **shrugs shoulders**

Guess that explains why I'm 10 years celibate and counting.

 

[Riverrick]

hypothetical:

a guy approaches you and tells you he wants to have sex with you.

you consider it, but ultimately you don't find him attractive for whatever reason.

would you still have sex with him?

just curious...

So who's the guy? Did you have sex with him?

Well, if I don't find him attractive I still might. There was this guy a few years ago who I met that came out of the closet in his late 30's and had never been with a guy yet, and that kind of turned me on. Not to mention I wanted his first experience to be a positive one.

So, yes, I did. It was a lot of fun and once we got going I didn't really care about the physical attraction part. I mean, when you're next to a guy up close you it really becomes more about skin on skin and smell and touch and stimulation, and good looks take a back seat.

 

[rollex_2000]

done it just for sake of doing... maybe not to let him or her down. I mean when I knew that that is what they had been expecting... I kinda hate saying no to people. if the attraction is somewhere near ZERO i may agree to proceed, but if it is BELOW zero there is no way...

 

[Croynan]

this make me laugh. no one in their right mind is going to approach me for sex. trust me i know. i wouldn't approach me for sex.

the last time that happened to moi, was back in BC, in Stratford on Avon, after attending the Royal Shakespeare Co. - i was walking along the river trying to get some fresh without realizing t'was a bit of a cruising area.

i kept seeing men. finally it dawned upon me what was going on and where i was. i was just leaving when some guy approached me and ....................i said no........................................ and after that..................................and then .......................................well there was this note on my hotel room door,.........................................at 9 a.m. instead of 1 p.m. as originally scheduled .

however, the next day ............................and there was nothing i could do about it.................................... There he was, flowers and .........................well what more can i say?..............................

If you have ever seen David Lean's brilliant film Brief Encounter - that is all you need to figure out what happened.

one reads stories about incidents like this but then when they happen to one, one is just not prepared for such events.

i want my teddy bear and i want him know.​

being a local village idiot is just not that easy and sometimes people just do not understand.​

eM.​

 

[josher]

I said "maybe."

There are many factors other than being "attractive" that would influence my decision.

 

[eddielee]

I think I'd be disturbed by a stranger asking me for sex, even if he was hot. I want romance, emotional attachment. Wine and dine me, get to know me, and then I'll put out.

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>So who's the guy? Did you have sex with him?

Actually, my gut feeling is that GL is the other one...possibly?

Lex

 

[chuchu]

Yes My only requirement these days is that they are breathing. Just joking.. Is he was young and attractive i"d be very susipious .And if they were an old Fart like me it would be a waste of time .unless it was that once a year day..
Give me a good cup of tea please..........

 

[Eternaldarkness]

If I don't find the person attracting in anyway, ofcourse I am not interested. Unless he really has a nice personality, but then we'll start off as friends first, never sex!

sex, just because is really wrong. If you don't want to be known as the slut, then you shouldn't act like you are. To me, thats like having sex with random strangers, you're so desperate for the pleasure... whomever, or whatever is good enough for you.

 

[Apollo]

depends on him body. if he has a nice hard body, but his face isnt all that than sure. a little pug is acceptable to. it also depends on how horny i am. ultimately though, i chose no.

 

[GL]

>>>So who's the guy? Did you have sex with him?

Actually, my gut feeling is that GL is the other one...possibly?

Lex

this is all hypothetical.

 

[secondmonkey]

No. I'm all for casual sex, but if I'm not attracted I'm not interested, and I'm really picky. Being 21 and not exactly ugly, I've had the opportunity more than a few times and turned it down. If I find him attractive, then yes, absolutely.

On the other hand, if you mean "sex" in the butt sense...no, I don't do that with anyone.

 

[FirePhoenix]

So this guy is so desperate he would actually want me....
He is a serial killer and he wants to get me alone?

Tempting but no.

 

[Shepherd 2]

If you are going to have sex with me,
you will first have to make love to me,
and that will only happen with someone I know well,
like my partner.
There are no walk ups.
Shep+