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Sex or cuddles/general affection?

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Which do you usually prefer (although both are obviously neccesary for a happy relationship)?

My answer:

Sex is fine, and it's cool with the right person, but I've actually enjoyed cuddles and just relaxing in the guys arms or putting my head on his shoulder more when I've been with guys. :p I think that's partly because I'm really self-conscious, partly because I'm lazy, and partly just becasue of that warm fuzzy feeling I get when I feel safe in a guys arms. ^^
 
Right now...I don't want any of it from anyone.

It pisses me off. =/
 
Sex with cuddles... or cuddles with sex. If I had to choose, I'd choose cuddles, though.
 
I do really enjoy cuddling and kissing---but sex is a necessity.


This is after being in a relationship where I was not allowed physical contact for years,
 
Cuddling is such a waste of time. Who invented that shit anyway? I just want to get off, then get back to work.
 
Sex to me means nothing without closeness and affection.Hugs,snuggles,touching,just being intimate together.Then the banging later is really good!
 
OrionFyre said:
I could be quite content in a relationship in which there is no sexual activity between us.

However, I cannot be in a relationship with someone who does not like to show affection through cuddling, nuzzling, spooning etc etc. I'm much the same way as the OP, I get a level of fulfillment from cuddling and bonding that I can't get in other ways. I consider making out part of this category.
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Will you marry me?

Oh, and I agree with you.
 
Call me a self hating gay if you want (im actually bi) but the whole cuddling and affection thing, I could never do it. Some guys have tried that with me and it felt really awkward and weird. Sex with guys is great and I could do that but the after sex cuddling made me tense and felt wrong to me.

BTW, WTF is spooning??
 
This is Wisconsin... Sex heats up the body, cuddling maintains it during those cold, harsh winter nights...
 
Sex is required, no sex is no relationship. I like general affection and cuddling too, but let’s be clear, by that I do not mean having someone hang off of me every second of the day. That’s just annoying.
 
Transpogue said:
As many others have stated, cuddling and sex support each other in a relationship.

If I don't know you, and I've only brought you home to fuck you, you are not guaranteed cuddling.

If I do know you, and you live in my house or you have a toothbrush in my medicine cabinet, you bet your ass there will be cuddling. But it is not a substitute for sex.
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agreed. cuddling with someone, to me at least is indicative of familiarity and perhaps something more.

but besides that i could really go for a good shag and some huggies after. ;)
 
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