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Sex tips and tricks for the beginners

My first time was

  • AMAZING!!!!!!

    Votes: 9 29.0%

  • It was good but a little Awkward...

    Votes: 15 48.4%

  • Bad

    Votes: 3 9.7%

  • Lets not talk about it...

    Votes: 4 12.9%
  • Total voters
    31
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This is a thread for first timers, much like myself to connect with older and more experienced men to get advice on all the things to know about sex. This thread will hopefully be a place for men to put down all the things they wish they knew before their first time. and the ins and outs of being with a man (no pun intended !oops!) But this can also be a place for boys to ask questions on the things they would like to know. Please dont be embarrased and dont hold back we want details lol maybe even an embarrasing story of two! Hopefully this thread can be a good resource for guys like me who are full of questions but just have no one to ask and sometimes dont even know how to ask... look forward to everyones responces

Keep it real
Pj
 
I'm far from being a first-timer, but the poll could apply to anybody regardless of their amount of history along the sexual experience continuum. Therefore, I voted.

Bad the first time, extremely anonymous and totally mechanical, no real closeness or affection, etc. HOWEVER...the SECOND time (28 weeks later, and with a different and much nicer guy) was spectacular!

This was so long ago - the majority of JUBbers weren't even born or thought about yet - that it's actually hard for me to think about what I wish I'd known first time around.

Please keep this thread a complete NO FLAME ZONE. Also, it's probably good for some with a lot of experience to come in here and comment, when appropriate to do so, such as when advice might be sought, or a newbie has posted a perception which clearly should be corrected or commented on.

It should also be kept in mind that not all things are appropriate for all people, especially as preferences are formed. Some people absolutely LOVE blow jobs, while there are other people [rare] who don't care for them at all. The nipples or the prostate can be highly erogenous to some, and not to others. Some people have fetishes (which can range far and wide in variety), others do not. Some people will come to prefer "vanilla" sex, and others will want to explore The Wide World of Kink. Myself I have come to strongly prefer the frottage method of sex, FAR above and beyond all other methods, and that's not very common.

I think this will become a very helpful thread, assuming it catches on.
 
Mine was OMFG!!!

It was with a guy I had the hots for, for the longest time.

It really couldn't have been any better.

I wish he knew my ass wasn't a pussy and with me you can't just shove it in that fast the first time.
 
My first time was. . . so long ago that Saran Wrap wasn't used only for cooking.
 
Mine was awful, slobbery and quick. I soon got the hang of it though!

Am I supposed to give a tip aswell?

Um... relax and have fun!
 
I was 19 he was 24..
I had no idea what I was doing, all I knew was that he was a gay guy and I wanted sex.
Did not know who was supposed to be on top or bottom.
Ended up ok though... all I wanted was to kiss a guy and hold his naked body close to mine.
Just jacked off together after about an hour of naked kissing and feeling each others bodies.

A different guy next time.... and it was a bit better. Took me a bit of time to figure it all out though.... well, not sure I've got it all down yet.... but I think I'm pretty close.
 
my first time oral and first time anal (top) were both with very close friends...they were awesome

i still haven't been bottomed...want to though....but i sometimes like to play with toys up there

my 'advice' is to find someone with whom you have a real connection...not just a stranger....and take your time and explore and discover each other's needs and pleasures.....make it a time you can fondly remember...there's plenty of time for quickies with strangers if that's what you get into

but please remember....always play safe...and never go BB unless you absolutely know and trust the person...that's what was so nice about doing it with a close, trusted friend
 
These are great, but i do have questions about cleaning and stuff I have seen and heard stuff about cleaning and enemas but dont get it what am i supposed to do before hand...anything? what about mistakes or myths?? expectations you had that were far off?
 
i have only fooled around and both times it was with close friends. the second time we got close to having sex with each other, but we got spooked by a noise at the door and thought that someone was walking in. but it was fun nevertheless
 
sockid221 said:
These are great, but i do have questions about cleaning and stuff I have seen and heard stuff about cleaning and enemas but dont get it what am i supposed to do before hand...anything? what about mistakes or myths?? expectations you had that were far off?
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you might try this thread in the Health and Wellness forum. there are some other things in that forum that may be of help and interest to you.

good luck.:wave:

eM.](*,)
 
Without getting into too much detail...

I was head-over-heels in love with him.

He was willing to let me please him, but still not too sure if he really was gay or not. Yet he couldn't deny that he wanted to be with me.

Our first time was in his bed. The passion was real for both of us. We both eagerly participated. I never felt anything so incredible in my entire life as I did to be with him in this special way.

When it was over, neither one of us wanted to stop kissing, let go, or get out of bed.

That was the first time he told me he loved me.:D



RIP my beautiful Vincent. I still miss you...
 
My first time was in a threesome and I can't think of a better to have spent my first time.
 
ronboy said:
Without getting into too much detail...

I was head-over-heels in love with him.

He was willing to let me please him, but still not too sure if he really was gay or not. Yet he couldn't deny that he wanted to be with me.

Our first time was in his bed. The passion was real for both of us. We both eagerly participated. I never felt anything so incredible in my entire life as I did to be with him in this special way.

When it was over, neither one of us wanted to stop kissing, let go, or get out of bed.

That was the first time he told me he loved me.:D



RIP my beautiful Vincent. I still miss you...
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That is very touching ronboy. Please don't tell me his name was Vincent.
 
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