Sex with a girl?

[chrisdobro]

okay so this is a weird question .. I know

but one fine day I was curious to see what it will be like to have sex with a girl. (I think) I was horny with the thought at the moment, and it seemed kind of a little kinky.

So I posted a note on CraigsList section seeking a girl, explaining my situation, that I am gay, etc. Nothing but spam came out of that for the first few days.

Now, a week after I get a message from a girl, who is real, apparently, she is on facebook in my area and she has friends who might be interested. They want to know my facebook, my number to txt.

I am now not really feeling the urge to do anything, and I typically don't share my number or my facebook with others, this soon at least and um with a girl. I am somewhat apprehensive, but so is the girl's friend.

Uh.. I am in a stalemate here. What do I do?

I am considering calling the whole thing off. Part of me is torn as where ever am I going to ever try something like this. Of course there are no guarantees that this will even happen anyway even if I try. Any advice or alternate viewpoints here to consider that may help make up my mind? Thanks!!

 

[TX-Beau]

Well having come this far...

LOL, I don't really mean that. If you're curious about having sex with a woman you should try it.

But if you no longer want to go there then you should be honest. Who knows, you may get a friend out of it.

I will tell you that while sex with a woman was pleasant, after the first guy, I had absolutely no interest in it, and if I'd been having sex with guys from the start, I probably never would have gone there. Being with a man is just so much more.

There are also gay men who see the vag up close and personal and find it...unfortunate.

If you're going to do it then do it, but don't string a girl along.

 

[TX-Beau]

By the way, and I don't mean this in a bad way, it's just that your predicament is the first thread in here that's ever made me laugh.

Because of all the gay men in here who come in asking us to tell them how to get the straight guy to jump the fence.

 

[1091MAC]

I would not give the facebook out. I have a friend you actually posts ads on CL as a woman wanting straight sex, so that he can collect the pics. I would give your stats and ask if she wants to meet for coffee/drink sometime. I would think that your cell would be the most anonymous thing you could do or buy one of those prepaid cells. Good luck. Please let us know how it turns out.

 

[Seasoned]

^I agree. You really don't know who you're dealing with here.

 

[chrisdobro]

Okay well the situation is now stranger than ever. The girl acts as a mediator between me and the other girl. So I am first to meet the girl who contacted me in order to meet the girl who will potentially have sex with me. This is because the sex girl is shy; but not shy in the sex end of things.

I think I will be bailing out here.

 

[Rolyo85]

Probably a good idea.

So happy I never wanted to have sex with a girl. Not sure I even can ^_^

 

[gumshoe]

I would say let it go and try again later. Perhaps try to do it that doesn't require giving out personal information and deal directly with the person that is interested rather than a friend of them who think they "might" be interested.

And let me know what's it like. I've been curious at times as well.... :/