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Sex with Married Men

oddly enough, i once had a wife ASK me to have sex with her husband. she knew he needed m4m sex, and she wanted to have someone she knew was safe as his outlet.
 
Nope! I stay away from them. Think about the horribly damaging breach of trust and commitment between husband and wife. God forbid they should have kids. Let him come out if he wants it so bad. XXX
 
I hope all of you who are standing in judgement of married men follow your own rules when it comes to having sex with gay guys who are also attached. However, I certainly have never witnessed that kind of integrity in the gay community more than a handful of times.
Get off your lofty perches!
 
That is flat wrong!!!

Morals are morals...gay or stright
 
^ Harke, that's a generalization. I've known a few married men who are open to dabbling on the side but for one reason or other don't want to announce the fact.

And they are gay-friendly.

I respect their right to privacy.

We all have our own road to travel in life. Who are we to sit in judgement of others?
 
As It Happens To Be....i Am A Married Man Who Has On Serveral Occasions Had Sex With Another Male...we All Have Our Right To Privacy And Those Of You Who Denounce The Practice...i Forgive You....the Sex Just Happen To Be With Other Married Closeted Males And Are Well Respected In Our Community...we Chose A Different Lifestyle...even Though We Are Unhappy.
 
One of the worst mistakes i ever made.

Married men give more trouble than straight men, and i should know.
 
As It Happens To Be....i Am A Married Man Who Has On Serveral Occasions Had Sex With Another Male...we All Have Our Right To Privacy And Those Of You Who Denounce The Practice...i Forgive You....the Sex Just Happen To Be With Other Married Closeted Males And Are Well Respected In Our Community...we Chose A Different Lifestyle...even Though We Are Unhappy.

thanks SO much for explaining so well why I think so little of people like you.

You value that "WELL RESPECTED IN THE COMMUNITY" staus so much, unlike those fags you fuck every so often and to whom you give a fake names.

they're beneath you and are looked down upon not only by the community that respects you so much but also by you.

I mean you like to have sex with them, but you're certianly above them, aren't you?

I have the right to call you what I think you are, and if you don't like it, what are you going to do? Stand up to me? Where are you going to borrow the spine to do that?

I only have respect for men who live life on their own terms.. not terms dictated by society.

I only look up to men who treat those around them like humans and equals, not like furniture and props in the fake life they construct so they can keep their country club membership.




Before anyone asks me if I shag gay men who are partnered... well.. on occasion, yes.. but only if they're in a relationship which allows it. I don't shag anyone behind anyone else's back ever.

If you have a BF and wanna shag, he better be cool with you getting a little work from Soil.


I'm nobody's dirty little secret.
 
There's a guy right now talking to me about "getting together". He's in his 60's and married. He says his wife is physically unable to perform sexually (is that a common excuse for married men to cheat?). And he won't take no for an answer.

I never have and don't plan on doing anything with married men.
 
Guys, guys, settle down. I know that nothing is more satisfying than being able to take the moral high ground - and goodness knows I've done it myself often enough - but I think many of you would do well to stand back and consider the desperation and unhappiness of a married man struggling with (or struggling against) an attraction to men.

Try to walk a mile in the other fellow's shoes. And if you can't, bear in mind Bertrand Russell's comment: "In a democracy, people must get used to having their feelings outraged."

I've written on the subject of bisexuality before on these forums, and I'm always surprised, and a little saddened, to see the energy with which bisexual men are denigrated, often by the same people who complain that as gay men, they "don't get no respect".

There - I'll get off my high horse now, and back under my rock.

-T.
 
teadrinker, who said anything about bisexuality?

What we're talking about is men who are gay, have sex with men and still use un-suspecting women as props so they can still be "well respected in the community", unlike those people they fuck on the sly.

the kind of guys who play that sad little victim card... "oh, you don't know how hard it is to be gay and keep it a secret" as if I'm some kind of robot who never had to come out.

I can look down on that sort all I want, thanks.

And I do.
 
Over the years I've been propositioned by many men supposedly in commited relationships, straight and gay. Before I've turned them down, I've always asked "What would your wife/partner think of this?" The usual response is, "What s/he doesn't know won't hurt her/him." And my response was always, "Yes it will, whether s/he finds out or not." There is no such thing as harmless cheating IMO.
 
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