Sex with ugly guys...

[willsboy84]

Exactly.

At that point aren't you just a sex addict?

A weird thing with the gay population is that a lot of people find themselves hotter than they are. Exhibit A_this thread. And I'll leave with that little diddy.

where exactly in that post do you get sex addict from? and who's claiming to be hot? the point of the thread i think is, have you ever slept with someone you weren't exactly attracted to. that could apply to anyone, regardless of what they look like.

 

[undisclosed1234]

where exactly in that post do you get sex addict from? and who's claiming to be hot? the point of the thread i think is, have you ever slept with someone you weren't exactly attracted to. that could apply to anyone, regardless of what they look like.

I didn't say he accused anyone of being a sex addict, I inferred that commentary from the premise of "having sex with people you don't find attractive". The rest was just an opinion based on the objectiveness of the word "ugly" which is at the center of this thread and my own observing of its usage here and beyond.

Reading comprehension; sometimes we take it for granted.

 

[undisclosed1234]

I'm sorry, but that's one of the dumbest things i've read from you in about 3 days.

That's some razor-sharp wit there, pal. I am humbled. "According to Jim" is missing a writer tonight.

Narcissism was never the point of this thread - nor is it limited to the gay populace. There are many, many, many shows and articles about straight men that disproves your theory.

And, if this is a way of getting a short shot at those that answered "yes", i'll be the first to inform you that i have absolutely no high opinion of myself, nor should I. Let's make that clear - again.

Who are you? This is not meant to be a jab, or maybe it is, who knows, but I don't recall any interaction with you and can't seem to grasp why my opinion of you (non-existent I assure you) requires any sort of clarification. Nor why you would think for a moment that I would remotely care about your self-image issues or lackthereof.

And while we're on the matter I never espoused any "theory" about gay guys as opposed to straights (when it starts with "I've noticed" it's usually an observation, fyi). And seeing as this is a thread on a gay message boards asking guys about their sexual habits with other guys, you can probably imagine why it was, in this instance, my comment was limited to gay guys. Now feel free to start a thread discussing the matter on sex with ugly girls and i'll be happy to chime in with the exact same opinion.

In that same vein you should know that topics are not iron-clad and that narcissism is very much integrated into the subtext of a topic like this and perfectly open to discussion. Now were the OP to correct me, I would return to topic but seeing as you're simply another poster I would be tempted to tell you to blow it out your ass.

Now Read, assess, and then reply. It's a good formula. Not too flashy but it works.

 

[G-Lexington]

You seem awfully inclined to toss around the word "narcissism". I'm not entirely sure I agree with your use of the term.

I like me. I'll go so far as to say I love me. I honestly don't think I'm that attractive to the outside world, and I can't say my interests or style of conversation or whatever will necessarily attract most, or even many, people. But frankly, I don't care about that too much. Because *I* like the way I look, and I can amuse myself for lengthy periods of time if I like. I don't know what I'd call that. I'd say "self-love", but like "narcissism", that makes it sound like I think I'm greater than I actually am. And I don't think that's the case with me. I've just accepted who I am, and enjoy him immensely.

Lex

 

[Huskerboy]

Face, body, package, intellect, ability, age range, alcohol. If you have three of these, you're in. Well, at least in the days when I wasn't picky.

Ditto...

 

[willsboy84]

I didn't say he accused anyone of being a sex addict, I inferred that commentary from the premise of "having sex with people you don't find attractive". The rest was just an opinion based on the objectiveness of the word "ugly" which is at the center of this thread and my own observing of its usage here and beyond.

Reading comprehension; sometimes we take it for granted.

EEEEEEEEEASY there, brainiac if misunderstood what you were saying, my bad. no need to be such a bitch about it.

 

[landers]

Since I don't have to actually look at him for him to fuck me, I would totally do it.

 

[alley]

Well, I am totally grateful when some hot guy thinks I am worthy to have sex with--I know he'll never call. And I know not tell anyone that he slummed around with me---cause his friends would just have a good laugh and all.




But, I have a big dick.

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

Well, I am totally grateful when some hot guy thinks I am worthy to have sex with--I know he'll never call. And I know not tell anyone that he slummed around with me---cause his friends would just have a good laugh and all.




But, I have a big dick.

I'm coming over now.

 

[The_Reaper]

I've probably slept with some guys some people would say were unattractive...And some people might say the same thing about me...

So, it's all a matter of definition. Not everyone thinks the same person is 'ugly'. Some might find those traits desirable, and as such, go after them.

So, it's more of a flawed question really.

 

[davy]

On behalf of all the ugly people: I would like to thank all of you for having sex with us.

 

[RationalLunacy]

Nobody is ugly after 2 AM.

 

[landers]

beggars can't be choosers

Beggars most certainly can be choosers, it just severely limits their already severely limited choices.

 

[NickCole]

Do you?

They have to be guys you find unattractive looking.

I did in the past. Atm I'm sorely tempted.

Sure I did.

I wouldn't have sex with someone I found repulsive but being attractive looking was usually not a major criteria for me. Not that I didn't sometimes hop into bed with a guy just because he was hot, but a lot of guys I had sex with were appealing to me in ways other than good looks. And some of the best looking ones were the biggest jerks and not necessarily the best sex.

 

[Ronin84]

Yes, i have had sex with a few ugly looking guys, when it is getting late at nite and there is nothing else around I will pick up an ugly looking guy as long as he is slim, and in his twenties.
I just turn the lights off for sex and then who would care what he looks like.
I always let my horniness get the better of me and sometimes after the deed is done I regret it, but, fuck, even ugly young guys deserve to have their sexy times too.

 

[Sunshine]

o____o

I'm not ugly right?

I'm pretty...so pretty.... *colors face with lipstick and shaves head*

 

[CudDULL]

i've hooked up with a guy i thought was unattractive but never had sex

 

[David DeVour]

When I was in my early twenties, I hooked up with a guy on a phone chat party line who was in his late forties or early fifties. I didn't have a problem with older guys then and still don't, so it's not about that. He had an ugly face and showed up drunk with a fifth of booze. I wasn't assertive enough to make an excuse and leave. We blew each other.

About a week later, I dialed the party line and pushed the number for messages. I recognized the guy's voice. He sounded drunk and kept asking, "Where's my cute little blond boy?". I assumed he was talking about me. I got disgusted with myself and never called a party line again.

 

[dpnice]

I presume that we are talking about casual sexual encounters here and not choices for a life long partner.

I therefore admit to having never had sex with someone who I personally would consider ugly. A large proportion of my sexual pleasure was always related to the physical appearance of the person and therefore he obviously had to fulfil certain criteria.

God I sound shallow.

Now if he just wanted to spend some time chatting or having a drink then physical appearance played no part, personality became much more important.

 

[Yohan1989]

I just hope people that called people ugly becomes ugly and see how that feels. This thread, man.

People have different taste. Everyone is ugly and everyone is hot.