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Sexless Relationship?

Haha.

I don't mind giving handys and bjs and such, I just dont like the thought of others touching me below the waist.
Can you explain this more?

Sounds like there is another issue involved here which is getting in the way of your sex life.
 
It's possible but not really healthy. My bf is 26 and I am 34 and we watch and jack off to internet porn alone a lot and it has slowed us down.When we didn't have internet we were fucking all the time. We have been together 4 years and slowed down a lot the last year and a half. We fucked last night for the first time in a very long time. But we have a very healthy relationship and are very happy.Are lives are as one in everyway. It works for us but I can tell my bf wants more sex so I will. He wouldn't go elsewhere though and he doesn't beg for it or anything like that. He only made a passing comment a few days ago for the first time. But I also just lost 30lbs and even though he loved me fatter I didn't love me fatter. I can see he looks at me different now that I look pretty good. But he would never admit that cause he loves me no matter what. So sex is by no means the biggest part of a relationship and sometimes it changes or comes and goes as life changes. But you have to try as with anything. You don't wanna be just friends or roommates. sex is that special thing between the two of you that is yours alone.Try to work through whatever is bethering you.
 
Haha.

I don't mind giving handys and bjs and such, I just dont like the thought of others touching me below the waist. I'm a strange bird, I know.

As long as you describe the aforementioned as 'sexless', all is good.

SC
 
I suppose it depends on what you mean by "relationship".
"Friendship" is a "relationship," and I don't sleep with most of my friends, even though I feel as strongly attached to some of them as I did to anyone I ever dated. And in fact I generally consider friendship to be an important step in any relationship in which I do have sex with someone.

So yes, I'm sure it's possible, so long as you don't mind your partner fulfilling his sexual needs in some other way, likely with some other person. You both have to want the same things out of the relationship, or there will be problems.
 
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