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Sexual Frustratation with Ethical Dillema

erobert

erobert

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This is a bit personal but I have no one else to talk to about this. I'm sure someone here has experienced the same thing.

I'm staying with relatives until I find my own place or roommates but I'm about to go crazy from not getting any since I moved nearly two weeks ago.

I'm not comfortable doing anything sexual related due to this being my relatives house (that would be weird and even creepy as I'm staying in my cousins old room) and the psychological association is discouraging me from doing anything like that.

Now, sooner or later nature will kick in because the body has to regulate itself and I can't hold out until I go visit my parent's place for Thanksgiving- I'm already getting irritable and my drive is starting to go into overdrive. But what should I do?

-Seek someone out to "do it" with online or offline (this is uncharted territory for me and potentially dangerous. Plus who want's to do it with a virgin?)!oops!

-Wait for them to leave and then be potentially guilt ridden after doing it

-Wait for nature to take care of things (not always fun with a late surprise and having to change)

I need to get my own place in the city or find some understanding roommates- soon.
 
OK loki, I'm on my way *Hops on the PATH train*

Doing it in my parents house isn't wrong because I had my own room there where the majority of my teen years were spent, plus I grew up there and it was a familiar place.

Lex, I've thought about that but that's where my aunt and uncle shower too. Doing it in the same space where they shower?

Mike, thank you. You're a lifesaver.
 
Yes, doing it in the same place where they shower. And then "showering away the evidence". Hell, all showers have seen their share of hair, sweat, dandruff...and (presumably) urine, fecal matter, and ejaculate. :)

Lex
 
I cannot go without cumming for more than 3 days. After holding in for 2 weeks, I bet you'll shoot like a geyser. :lol: Another option is to get a hotel room for a night...you can even share the fun with another person there :p
 
You're kinda charming in your innocence, erobert. :D

I'm, like, one of the world's most modest people. I've felt the same way about wanking in someone else's house, or on vacation, in a hotel, etc. It's like I have to be a model of continence and chastity. The weirdest time was once when I was housesitting for my parents. I was staying in the room that was the master bedroom when I grew up, and I watched Dr Zhivago on video, with the astonishingly sexy Omar Sharif. I got so horned up I couldn't help but spank it ... but I couldn't bring myself to whack off in my parents' old bed, so I did it on the floor instead. :rolleyes:

Several years later I had a major spine surgery and spent a very long time recovering in that same room. Believe me, I had to get over my weirdness about wanking in my parents' old bed ... for one thing, I had to find out whether my equipment still worked, as there was a chance it wouldn't.

So, if I can wank in the same bed my parents conceived me in, you can wank in your cousin's old bedroom. :)
 
I also thought you were talking about sex at first

when I realized you were talking about masturbating I was bewildered, since I've masturbated at some point at every place I've ever spent more than one day at.

I don't know what to tell you other it's no big deal and everybody does it.
 
Living in another person's home can create challenges when the need for sex arises. I am thinking that by the phrases "not getting any" and "do it" you are referring to having sex with another person.

The easiest thing to do is to find someone online. You are obviously looking and they are obviously looking, so a great deal of the mystery is gone. I have hooked up with several guys at their homes which I met online. They were all great guys too.

Next, you could try picking up someone at a place where single guys hang out. I have never done this, so I am not speaking from experience. Then go to their place or to a motel depending on your comfort level and finances. GOOD LUCK!
 
wanking is universal (and great fun), get on with it.
Don't look for sex online.
Use this as motivation to get your accommodation/roomate sorted.
good luck !
 
First if you are not partnered probably you relatives asume you masturbate :lol:

erobert said:
-Seek someone out to "do it" with online or offline (this is uncharted territory for me and potentially dangerous. Plus who want's to do it with a virgin?)!oops!
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If I would be you I would go for this one. No problems about virginity :)
 
You are thinking, or better yet, dwelling on this way too much. Just wack off already, the quilt, should it occur, will subside rather quickly. I believe once you do this a couple of times the quilt will go away completely, replaced with a giddy feeling that you just wanked off in your relatives shower.
 
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