Sexual promiscuity

[giorgiobaby]

Whilst I may be promiscuous, I don't have a problem committing...if I meet the right person. I have been in 2 long term relationships with no problem with being monogomous....but why should I deny myself fun while single. I will leave that to the nuns and priest.

 

[Lukeee]

Are open relationships indicative of a relationship with less love and commitment in it?

I see open relationships as a sign of a relationship where sex isn't the most important thing.

 

[poncaplowboy]

....because it is easy.

 

[PabloZed]

Its a combination of things, including most of what people have said. Its easier to find a sexual partner than a boyfriend and the evidence is that most sexual encounters don't end up as anything more. You also can't deny or discount the fact that sex is really fun, or at least good sex is. I love riding my bike and do it more than lifting weights, but does riding a bike mean I am somehow deficient in some other area?

When you consider nature and how species are wired, males are always the aggressors. We seek out mating and will hump anything. Its in the genes because we are programmed to procreate. Men chasing other men is frankly chaos because there is no party trying to have babies and looking for protection.

 

[PabloZed]

It ain't just the old whores who find themselves alone after their beauty has passed. There are a lot of guys who "saved" themselves and their goodies ended up rotting on the vine.

 

[puka-pride]

I'm slutty... I'll admit it... I put out when I want to which happenes more oftne then not

I use guys because I have an over active sex drive, and i've had complaints about it.

I don't have to fill a void because of a lack of love... people love me... I feel loved by my friends and family

I don't have an inability to love either...

the reason why i am promiscuous and not finding a guy to settle down with is simple...

I can't find a guy worthy of my love.

 

[inlovewithblair]

I'm slutty... I'll admit it... I put out when I want to which happenes more oftne then not

I use guys because I have an over active sex drive, and i've had complaints about it.

I don't have to fill a void because of a lack of love... people love me... I feel loved by my friends and family

I don't have an inability to love either...

the reason why i am promiscuous and not finding a guy to settle down with is simple...

I can't find a guy worthy of my love.

HOW MUCH DO I LOVE THAT POST?!

I was told I was 'too picky'. And, then...I sort of lost control. I'm like, 'Maybe me being picky isn't the problem. Maybe you're just not good enough!'

 

[puka-pride]

HOW MUCH DO I LOVE THAT POST?!

I was told I was 'too picky'. And, then...I sort of lost control. I'm like, 'Maybe me being picky isn't the problem. Maybe you're just not good enough!'

I'm glad you understand

 

[Telstra]

It ain't just the old whores who find themselves alone after their beauty has passed. There are a lot of guys who "saved" themselves and their goodies ended up rotting on the vine.

make alot of sense.


off topic:
Nothing wrong with this thread from AndrewD.

 

[EwanSF]

I'm a rampent fire-breathing whoor, I will always freely admit it and it's not because I'm truely miserable underneath it all, desperately trying to fill the gaping void that is my loveless life. Truth be told, it's because I'm more than a tad partial to shaggin' good-lookin' guys up the arse. There are no freudian undercurrents here, nothing more complex than the fact that I really enjoy sex, and there is nothing wrong with that.

I'm always quite suspect of people who make the claim that all promiscuous people are doing so to compensate for something missing in thier lives. It's indicitive of the ingrained, judeo-christian culture of shame with regards to sex that a lot of people still carry about. They may take it up the arse, but someone who does it with lots of different people, oooooooh, no we can't be having that.
I'm not saying there aren't people that habitualy bed hop for reasons of low self esteem, but to suggest that that is anything other than a minority is a bit much. We're not all mental...in that capacity anyway.


That being said, I have been in love before, doubtless it will happen again at some point in my life, but at the moment, I'm more than happy to whoor it about and see what happens.