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Hey all, i got a bit of a problem. You see me and my best friend of 20 years had a sexual encounter a couple of months ago. Sucked him off a couple of years ago and one night he wanted to give me one that ended with sex. I was nervous as hell and could not cum but he did. Our friendship remain the same but ever since i see him in a different light. I had many masterbation session fantasizing about him fucking me(he was bottom last time) and yesterday i came to a picture of him. My question is should i tell him or just keep it quite? And if i do tell him, whats the best way of telling him?
 
Well, don't go up and say "dude, you turn me on", that doesn't really go anywhere. There is nothing wrong with feeling the ground though - maybe try and arrange for the two of you to be in a "date"-like situation, see if there is sparkage.

Or you could just come on to him and try to have sex. Friends with benefits is still friends.
 
Do you both identify as bi? Is there sexual banter and/or sexual tension as part of your relationship? Regarding these two sexual episodes which were years apart, did he initiate both times? The answers to these questions might speak to who's been in charge of pushing the envelope.
 
Hmmmmmmmmmm.

Are you both single or married?

I can't answer without knowing this.
 
Well were both single though he has beeb with women. Theirs no sexual tension between us, we just go on like nothing happen. As for who started it, it was definitely him. I brought it up after we were finished that he planned the thing,but he denied it. And its been awile since it was just the 2 of us, seems like a good idea for a night out together.
 
OK, since you are both single, I can suggest that you could move to the FWB level if there is no awkwardness after you've had sex.
 
On the other hand there's nothing after you had sex, which suggests there's nothing there but getting off.

I wouldn't count on there being any depth of emotion if it hasn't surfaced already.

Twice in twenty years with nothing else does not a passion make. So have your moments of release as they come along, but don't count on anything else.
 
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