Sexuality???

[lookin4sum1icantrust]

Straight & Bi guys I have a question?

I been having girlfriends ever since I was about 11 yrs old, but since I realize what was going on about how a lot of my ex's did me was around 14-15 yrs old. Every time I get a girlfriend they cheat on me or break-up with me. idk what I do wrong I never curse out them, hit them, or anything. I'm always nice to a female, and give thing they want and need. Is it wrong to have my sexuality on the line of curious since it's not going well in the straight area, I guess why not try the other side. Well so far its not going as well as I thought, it hard to find a guy that is into dating, most of the guys just want sex, and it is just so annoying. idk what i'm going 2 do I hate this! What is wrong with this picture?

 

[sunoftheskye]

Girls treating you badly is not the reason to start dating men. You'll likely encounter the same problems. There are lots of gay guys into being in committed relationships, you just have to look in the right places.

 

[sibersan]

if ur honestly curious, then date a guy. But dont become gay/bi just because you have bad luck with females, cuz u'll just be lying to yourself, and if you get in a serious relationship with a guy, and you relize you want to be with a female, your gonna break the guy's heart.
The way people are now is pretty f-ed up. Relationship/marriage dont have the same value as it use to. You just have to hang in there.

 

[lookin4sum1icantrust]

I seriously do want to date a guy, I just don't really know how to approach this.

 

[lookin4sum1icantrust]

Time and patiences.

Most guys do break down to just wanting a lot of sex. No, I'm not saying all of them. I know there are (openly) a few on the boards here and my self included. It's taken me a long time to find someone who I have the possibility of going out with.


Go for it. I understood that I'm gay at the age of 13, if your curious (and decide otherwise) the fantastic. Don't not and go try this because you can't find a guy to date, yet.

It'll happen

So your telling me to do some one-nighters and maybe some of the guys will open up to a LTR?

 

[RedRedKroovy]

ok I like girls for sex but like I have said before I do not connect with females at all emotionally

I know it has everything to do with my shitty mom and my nonexistent childhood

I connect much better with guys as far as feelings

There isn't a girl I've ever dated that could tell you shit about me cuz I just don't talk to them

but you're young you'll figure it out

 

[lookin4sum1icantrust]

If that's what you want to do, sure.

That isn't what I am saying though.

I'm just saying feel it out and go for it when you think (really think) it's time and able to have a relationship with a man. If you want to just have sex and *attempt* to have a LTR with one of these people, then cool.

But remember, if they are willing to have a One niter with you, what makes you different when it comes to a LTR and someone else?

lol yeah so true, One-Nighters are hurtful.

 

[Storybook_Man]

hm, you are young

 

[lookin4sum1icantrust]

hm, you are young

Why is young keep being brought up? Not all young ppl are slow @ these things. Some young ppl just want a relationship, and not just sex too! Yeah I know i'm young but we want more than just a one night stands or fuck buddies. A lot of us stay away from that stuff, preventing STD to spread on to us and the next person. Sex is ok but its overrated now.