If you're looking for an incident of aggression by anyone that happened in a vacuum you'll be doomed to fail. There's always enough of a pretext for leaders to be able to justify aggression to their people. You can't simply ignore incidents of Israeli aggression so blatant that even our US State Department condemned it.
The Six Days War was imminent Arab aggression. And I didn't say otherwise. But Israel didn't need to conquer those five areas to win it. They annexed land during a war. That's aggression too. It so happens I support the annexation of East Jerusalem. I think they should keep it and it's their capital. Doesn't mean they didn't get it via aggression though.
As far as being stuck in decades past is concerned, you're the one defending the ridiculous stance that it's Israel against the entire Arab world, which hasn't been true for over thirty years. You're the one who said, "Israel has one millionth the land and is endlessly attacked." Which, as I've shown, isn't true.
Remember the concept of Greater Israel I linked you to. You can be as pro-Israel as you want (lord knows I'm rather pro-Israel) but that does not mean you get to change history or the facts of aggression and victimhood. Israel isn't this innocent little country surrounded by hordes of enemies who attack it relentlessly. Yet that is how you seek to portray it.
You want to think about aggression, how about the settlement movement? Israel settlements, under Israeli law, that are built on land that's supposed to be Palestinian. Israel benefits from delaying a solution to this problem. The longer they delay, the less a chance a two-state solution will be effective. The settlements have also been declared by the UN to be a violation of international law. Over 10% of the population of the West Bank is Israeli settlers (
304,569 settlers there,
2,514,845 people in West Bank).