Shifting from Master to slave and reverse

[bulge]

I am very much in the mood of being Master at present, but I will have to be slave this evening. I cann't find the button in my head to switch my state of mind for tonight. Does anyone know the right button to switch so that I am in the slave state of mind for tonight?

 

[Ramindra]

It is the red one, third from the left.

 

[boredman321]

no no ramindra, thats the flap your wings and act like a duck one... he wants the blue one third from the bottom!

 

[subobj]

Treat it as lesson in humility that you don't necessarily want but that you know you need -- that might tap into the slave mindset.

 

[igamenir]

There's nothing like a switch, i think.

I actually never care about it.. well, i'm about 40% dom, 60% sub, so when i feel dom and going to be sub, i just go there, play it few minutes and i will get into it quite soon.

It's much worse the other way.. I can't be good dom when i want to be sub at the moment.. so i make the lesson short or, if the sub is for sex activities, we just suck and fuck (with a little help of bondage) and dont do really any sm things.

 

[filipbong]

What a disaster it would be if you and your partner both came as the master...

 

[bulge]

There's nothing like a switch, i think.

I actually never care about it.. well, i'm about 40% dom, 60% sub, so when i feel dom and going to be sub, i just go there, play it few minutes and i will get into it quite soon.

It's much worse the other way.. I can't be good dom when i want to be sub at the moment.. so i make the lesson short or, if the sub is for sex activities, we just suck and fuck (with a little help of bondage) and dont do really any sm things.

Exactly, there is no switch. But Subobj is right. There is no other option than to take it as a lesson in humility, although it doesn't quite work in play.

 

[vegasgayguy]

Its hard for me to ever get into a master/slave or dominant/submissive type role. It seems more so that gay guys are into defining a role in relationships than straight guys in a guy/girl relationship. Even the top or bottom designations don't work for me. I pretty much like to get fucked, then to fuck another guy, but when it comes to the passion of kissing, hugging, or body caressing, I seem to always be more into doing it to the other dude, then he is in doing it to me. Although when it comes to oral sex I prefer giving it more than getting it. But thats another story I guess...