short men attraction

[thelaw2047]

I don't think height matters to me. At the moment I'm really attracted to a guy at work who is about 5'6" as yourself and he is a fucking knockout...as yourself. George Uriah ( not his real name) can come be with me to the end of time...any day...I'm there....me...I'm 5'8" and I'm considered short too by a lot of guys. I'm not in a relationship either but ready to chill with someone if the day ever comes. So don't give up. You will find someone who wants to be committed. I haven't given up....there ya' go friend. Maybe George might get around to asking me out....sigh...he's probably straight.

 

[bshane]

The guy I have a crush on is only 5 ft 2. Height is not the problem for me any way. I will date ya! Your 21 and depressed, don't be. I am 29 and still have not been with a guy. Hang in there. I think there are many guys ready and willing to have a serious LTR with you.

 

[nsguy2]

The last thing any decent guy would see as an issue is your height.

I have some friends around 5'6" and believe me, they're hot and straight of course. Not that there's anything wrong with that.

 

[RicanDAB]

5'6" can be a very sexy height ... it's all in the way you carry yourself with confidence.

 

[G-Lexington]

Do I believe guys are willing to be in a monogamous relationship? Of course. Not all guys, but I'd venture to say the majority are. Generally speaking, the older the guy, the more likely that is. I don't think it's a "sign of the times". Just as guys get older, they get their hormones more under control, and they're more willing to "nest".

Why haven't you met that guy yet? Not sure, but it certainly doesn't have anything to do with your height. It's not like only six-footers have steady boyfriends. The most likely reason? You haven't found the right guy yet. Just haven't made the connection. Keep at it! Make sure you're going to places where you're more likely to meet someone who's willing to be in a monogamous relationship, though. (Hint - bathhouse? Not ideal.)

Lex

 

[broad-market]

IMO, shorter guys and girls are a turn-on. I'm about 5'7 (and 20-years old) so someone around my height or a little bit shorter is very sexy. I call 'em my "shorties."

 

[thegreenfury]

im pretty tall myself and i've always preferred shorter guys. guys my height or taller kinda freak me out... oh, and i'm 23 and havent had a meaningful relationship yet, but i dont let it stress me out. still plenty of time left!

 

[Eagle653]

Hi 24uplz and welcome to JUB! It's nice to have you here!

5'6" is be no means short. And, yes, there are men today who believe in manogamous relationships. In fact, all my my coupled friends are, and all of my single friends want to be. So, yes, it's still a strongly-held value.

I seriously doubt there's anything wrong with you, least of all your height. Perhaps it's where you're looking, or a confining set of friends, or who knows what. If what you're doing isn't attracting a partner, then re-examine your strategy and branch out. Perhaps widen your net of friends (did you know that most long-lasting partners meet such partners through mutual friends and acquaintances?), or widen your interests and clubs/groups you belong to so that you simply come in contact with new and different people.

Good luck! Keep in touch and let us know how you're doing. Again, welcome aboard!

 

[drhladnjak]

You're only 21. I'm 27 and I've never been in a long term relationship either. We're young--there's still lots of time. There's no hurry to get coupled up so soon. Remember, looking for a boyfriend doesn't usually work out. You need to live your life while being open to a relationship coming along.

As for the height thing, different guys are into different things. Personally, I really like pocket gays and know many others into shorter guys as well.

 

[mikeyb]

I actually like shorter guys and I'm not really that tall in the first place which I stand 5'7". Do not let you being 5'6" bother you. I think a guy can be manogamous at any age. I was at 21.