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Should I ask my straight friend?

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I've been fortunate enough to have given blowjobs to 2 straight friends (1 just got married and the other is a Jesus freak, so they are pretty straight).

But there is a coworker/friend who I really want to give a blowjob to. The problem is thatbwe rarely see each other since I work day shift and he works night shift.

He has a girlfriend, but she's been away for training in the Army. So I know he's lonely and isn't getting any action.

So I'm thinking of texting him asking if he would ever let me blow him.

Good idea, bad idea? How should I word it?
 
I assume you're confident that propositioning a coworker (in writing, no less) will not bite you in the ass?

My suggestion - weigh the potential fallout and decide if it's worth it. I'll assume you know he's not some violent gaybasher; it's still conceivable that you could lose him as a friend, have coworkers and other friends find out because he blabbed, and have an awkward situation created for you at work (assuming you haven't violated some carefully spelled-out guidelines for employee conduct and lost the job). If you can live with these things if they happen, then have at it.
 
^ Good advice above.. Feel it out and see. I might not be so blunt though. Flirt around with the idea. Maybe a "if you get bored and lonely, hit me up and I can keep you company" :)
 
suburbanite hit it right on the head. You be truly surprised how many dudes say they are "straight" and would get blown by a dude. i hope it all works out good luck
 
Bad idea. Harken unto that old saying: You don't shit where you eat.
 
Think about your friendship. The very first time I joined this forum almost 3 years ago was for advice on "seducing" a straight friend. This straight friend of mine (older) is the brother of the other friend (younger brother) who I was able to successfully "seduce."

Coincidentally, that's exactly the same way I asked the older brother; I text him. The result? Not so good. He stopped talking to me for 6 months. He felt weird, uncomfortable and betrayed, and after I had done it and come here for advice, realized what I had done. I'm fortunate enough to still have him as a friend. At the time he didn't know I was bi, but he now accepts it and has no problem with it.

Take it from someone who's experience the exact same scenario you're about to embark on. How good of a friendship do you have with this guy? I've been close friends with the older (and younger [they're 1 year apart in age, I'm a year older than the older brother]) ever since we were 4. They're personalities are different, so it may have to do with the outcome of each, but are you willing to take the risk?

There are other guys, gay at that, who are willing to partake in such activities. Not to say they are floozies, but since they are interested in the same sex, they are more reluctant to not hesitate.

Hope I helped.
 
Being so forward with straight guys can really backfire. Imagine how you'd feel if a female friend or co-worker sent you a text message like that.

I'd avoid asking entirely. . .look for masculine gay dudes instead.
 
wow you've already sucked 2 str8 friends? man you're so lucky, i guess all the str8 guys i like are too str8 to do something like that...
well if you're so lucky just text him good things could happen
 
chace1617 said:
wow you've already sucked 2 str8 friends? man you're so lucky, i guess all the str8 guys i like are too str8 to do something like that...
well if you're so lucky just text him good things could happen
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I think mine are too straight too .. But there has to be 1 that would willing, but I'll never know *sigh*
 
Just to update:
I texted him at about 2am to make it seem like it could be a drunk text. I basically said please dont take it the wrong way and asked if he would ever let me give him a bj. He didnt respond and a week later I see him at work (I only see him 1-2 times a week for a few minutes each time). He tells me how I send weird texts, and I acted oblivious and said "what text?" and he said "the one from last week, but maybe it wasnt you, maybe it was one of those mass text things." and the conversation ended there. That night I text him again saying that the original text really was from me and that I may have been a bit drunk, but the question was real. Again no response.

I finally saw him again tonight, but no mention of the texts. But he is still acting friendly/normal/jokingly. I said "I'm probably going out tonight" and he said "wow, feel free to send over an invite". I didn't know if he was serious or just saying it, so I brushed it off.

How should I get him to respond/answer the question ("would u let me give u a bj?"). Should I be more aggressive?
 
hola1234 said:
Just to update:

I finally saw him again tonight, but no mention of the texts. But he is still acting friendly/normal/jokingly. I said "I'm probably going out tonight" and he said "wow, feel free to send over an invite". I didn't know if he was serious or just saying it, so I brushed it off.
Should I be more aggressive?
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So um.......what part of "wow, feel free to send over an invite" didn't you understand?....... ](*,) #-o
 
i guess the question is....how innocent is he?

...do you wanna get a sore throat just to satisfy an urge?

i thought about messing around with strangers but then realized that taking that chance wasn't worth putting a good friend at risk.

thats the only thing i would be worried about.
 
well i think he already got the point''you want to suck his cock'', but he still is nice to you so this is a good sign, since he asked you to invite him when you go out then do it!!! go out and hang out with him, don't be more aggressive than that cause he already knows, maybe you should talk about it only if he starts the discussion, and drink a lot of beers first
 
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