Should I be falling for him?

[TheOscar]

I can understand why the other guy, we'll call him X, feels like it's time to end this relationship. If he's looking for someone that feels the same for him, then he can go look for it. Yeah, I'm not sure if X is saying he loves you, but that he just has fallen for you. Though who knows if he means love, if so, kinda soon...


But don't feel bad! If you realize you aren't falling for him, either, then it's best to let him go, if that's what he wants. BUT it seems like you don't want to lose him, so tell him that! Tell him that you think it's just too soon for you to know. Tell him you want to spend more time before you give him a definite answer. If he's cool, he'll give you time. ;D

 

[KaraBulut]

But should I feel that way? I've only known him less than a month, should i be falling for him? if im not will i start falling for him eventually? Can this be something that takes time? or should I just know?

It's so confusing because like I said I really like him. please help....

The answer depends on what you want and whether you're the type that "falls" for people easily.

If you want the ideal, head-over-heels kind of relationship, then you probably aren't going to be satisfied with dating someone you like but don't have any chemistry with.

If you're the type who doesn't respond emotionally right off the bat or the kind that tends to be reserved until you get to know someone, then keep seeing him until you know whether there's more to this than just "we like each other".

If he's nice and you like him, you could do worse. Lots worse, actually.

 

[Taz]

Hey Guys. We had a talk and I told him the same as what I said on here and he said thats exactly how he feels. and it doesnt bother him if I dont feel as strongly as he does yet because apparently im worth waiting for

 

[Kulindahr]

Hey Guys. We had a talk and I told him the same as what I said on here and he said thats exactly how he feels. and it doesnt bother him if I dont feel as strongly as he does yet because apparently im worth waiting for

Y A Y ! !​

So, did you tell him you're a slow-blooming flower?

Or are you saving that one for V-day?

 

[Lefty]

Hey Guys. We had a talk and I told him the same as what I said on here and he said thats exactly how he feels. and it doesnt bother him if I dont feel as strongly as he does yet because apparently im worth waiting for

Actually, the big issue is if this bloke is good enough for our(collective) Taz.
He best walk the straight (uou know what I mean) narrow he had..or its
tossed off the Bloody Hanger and a Great Whites dinner he'll be.

LOL. glad things are all 4X4 now.

 

[DonQuixote]

Taz,
That's great to hear.
I'm glad things are back on track, one less stressor that's not really one to deal with.

 

[Kabluey]

Great to hear Taz -

Now for the weekend

 

[HunterM]

Awesome news Taz. What a relief, eh?!

So...did you guys have sex after that?

 

[Taz]

Thanks guys things are going well now. And yes we did hunter.and it was ducking great Lol.

 

[DonQuixote]

To quote Lefty/JUB's most typical response

"Pictures, or it didn't happen" lol.

J/K

 

[Lefty]

/\

You disgusting old fart.

How dare you talk to

one of my nephews like that?

 

[DonQuixote]

You're just mad that you didn't lovingly rib him with the statement first.

You're not fooling anyone, Leftykins.

 

[DonQuixote]

Damn,
I've GOT to remember to check "comments" more often.

I miss some great sidebar conversations.