should I do it with an escort?

[teufelderliebe]

hey guys,

i have a serious question concerning the sex with an escort
ive never been together with a guy and i really think that im attracted to girls and boys, - i already had some sex experiences with girls and i liked it, but i still want to practise on boys too. now to my question:

due to the fact that i do not want ANY relationship with guys and i just want to have some sex experiences, would you think is it a good idea to try it with an escort guy?
i mean.. im really worried about whats happening after that.. will it bother me? will i regret it?

what are your opinions?

please give me some advice.

bye

 

[G-Lexington]

OK, some questions first.

You've been a member of JUB for over three years, but "do not want ANY relationship with guys", what does that mean? I mean, it's presumably more than a passing curiosity.

Given just what you've said, yeah, I'd say either hire an escort or do a hook-up - either by going online or going to a bathhouse. (Bonus advice - if you do a hook-up, say you're straight. This will triple the number of responses you get.) Will it bother you? Will you regret it? Yes and yes. Almost certainly. Either you won't like it, and you'll feel you made a horrible mistake...or you'll like it, and you'll want to do it again.

Lex

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

Hook up or go to the baths. Escorts are not for first dates.

 

[youngnihilist]

On the contrary, I think escorts are better than a random hookup or the baths for a first date. Granted, the "best" way on paper is your first sex should be in a relationship or fuck buddy. But since that's not possible for many, there's nothing wrong with an escort. It's customary in some cultures for young men to hire prostitutes for their first time. Just be sane and careful where you find this escort, and make sure he is for real, explain to him that you are new, and I'm sure you'll have a great time. Better your first is a guy who teaches you and is patient with you than some creep who wants to fuck a virgin.

 

[Reprobate]

An escort who practices safe sex and takes care of himself is probably safer than some random guy in a bathouse or adult bookstore.

 

[slnattak]

First off, any interaction with another human being is a relationship. It just is various degrees you know. If you choose to interact with people, you are agreeing on some sort of relationship, however minute.

 

[luminum]

These are questions you should be asking yourself. Will it bother you? Will you regret it?

If you're not sure, then maybe you're best off not doing it.

 

[Jory]

if you have the money to spend on it then go for it just remember prostition is a crime The "legitmate" part of an Escort service is to have a companion to go out with what I have learned ,never used one is that they will never bring up the subject of sex

 

[youngnihilist]

Well if you're gonna go cruising on the streets for a hooker that might get you caught. But if you use one of the big escort sites and find a well reviewed guy I think you'd be fine.

 

[rareboy]

Lex is right.

Just keep telling your tricks that they're having sex with a straight guy but that you'd go gay for them.

Who knows, you might end up being an escort yourself?

 

[rareboy]

Escort = manwhore