UPDATE:
I met him last week in a coffee place just to hang out for the night. He promptly started talking about going somewhere private like a "bathroom stall" he knew on campus...at first I thought he was joking, but then I was starting to get creeped out and just said quickly, something like "sorry, I'm not into that."
Then he immediately digressed to talking about a guy he knew in town that would be interested in a threesome.
So then I saw someone I knew walking out of the store, started chatting with them, said a quick goodbye and was out the door fast.
So he creeped me out, and I don't think I'll be in any contact with him any time soon. I'm don't regret meeting him. It was a learning experience.
I learned that while hookups might seem fun in fantacy, the thought of actually doing it is a complete turn off, and I don't want sex outside a relationship. Just because I can fuck guys, doesn't mean I have to have sex for the experience of it.
I'm back together with Jane...I thought it would be awkward coming back from the summer and picking things up again, but our relationship as good (or better) as it's always been. wow. Something in my life actually worked out. Life is good.
I met him last week in a coffee place just to hang out for the night. He promptly started talking about going somewhere private like a "bathroom stall" he knew on campus...at first I thought he was joking, but then I was starting to get creeped out and just said quickly, something like "sorry, I'm not into that."
Then he immediately digressed to talking about a guy he knew in town that would be interested in a threesome.
So then I saw someone I knew walking out of the store, started chatting with them, said a quick goodbye and was out the door fast.
So he creeped me out, and I don't think I'll be in any contact with him any time soon. I'm don't regret meeting him. It was a learning experience.
I learned that while hookups might seem fun in fantacy, the thought of actually doing it is a complete turn off, and I don't want sex outside a relationship. Just because I can fuck guys, doesn't mean I have to have sex for the experience of it.
I'm back together with Jane...I thought it would be awkward coming back from the summer and picking things up again, but our relationship as good (or better) as it's always been. wow. Something in my life actually worked out. Life is good.

