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Should I just throw the towel, and find myself a nice wife???

Lugus15, life does seem miserable when you are in your middle 20's doesn't it? Especially when you are around the age where straights begin to forge permanence in their lives through marriage and settling down. Quite honestly, I can't tell you that you will not die alone, but doing nothing to prevent that fate will only guarantee it.

I feel that if you spend your days seeking the good in others and in yourself... it would neither be a wasted nor lonely life.
 
I have never been to Guatemala, but I have spent time in Mexico and Panama. I would think attitudes towards gays would be similar, based on Catholic pressure and the Latino machismo concept.
Lugus, as an intelligent young man, instead of perpetuating decades of insincere marriages, wouldn't your talents be better suited to educate and change things for yourself and others?
I don't mean getting shot and becoming a martyr, but get involved with movements meant to bring about an understanding and acceptance of gay people in a peaceful and gradual way. If not for yourself, for generations to come.
 
lugus15 said:
Who says Im wasting my life? At 24 years I´m this close to become a PhD.
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Growing old by yourself at 24 with a PhD. That's probaly more of an accomplishment than most of us will ever have. At 24 you're just starting life and one that you should be proud of instead of having self pity.

Most guys your age will be going through divorces and will forever be stuck in a rut..the same thankless job.

I never found my dream until I was 50 and I counted my blessings along the way. I now have the perfect job, perfect life and perfect bf. And it's not over yet.
 
You've kept yourself busy. Don't blame your successes on being single. Think of how much you have accomplished in comparison to those who already "threw in the towell," got married, and are bogged down by children.
 
Oh for God's sake - jump on the train and go out to Sitges for the weekend. Or watch a few Almodovar movies.

With a PhD and entree to the whole of Europe there's no need for you to stay in a Latin American Society - get out, have a life, and when you're 80 retire to the apartment in the hills behind your sister's house.

Your family probably know you better than you think - and better than you know yourself.
 
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