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Yes to both. Ughhhhhhhh
Time to sit down with your wife, garner up your courage and have an honest discussion.
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Yes to both. Ughhhhhhhh
crazy thing is I've seen them go at it more than once.
How?
Either way, tell him you know.
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Time to sit down with your wife, garner up your courage and have an honest discussion.
My current boyfriend cheated on me once. We were at a weak point in our relationship at the time. To be honest, both of us thought our relationship was going to end. He started seeking out other guys to date and so was I. It didn't feel right for me, so I just never went through with dating someone else. And he told me about every date he was going to go on not to spite me but to be honest.
Hi. I'm 35 years old recently married to a gorgeous woman in her 20's. I recently caught her (she doesn't know I know) having an affair with a ex-friend of mine. Shall I tell her I know? It kind of turns me on but at the same time gets me down.
P.S. after seeing him nude I have a new affinity for men, which made me join this site.
This story sounds a bit contrived...... But, if it is true, I would suggest talking with her. What she did is a violation of your marriage and all, it would be no different if you had cheated, with a man or woman. You should tell her you know and talk about it, no accusations or anything, just talk. Communicate. Unless you don't want to bother with trying to save your marriage at all.
Now, quick question: How did you suddenly see this "ex-friend" naked after "catching" him in an affair with your wife? And if you caught her, how is it she doesn't know? When someone is caught they are right there to know they've been caught. Like when you come home early and find them in bed together, they're caught when you open the bedroom door and see them. They also see you.
crazy thing is I've seen them go at it more than once.
Do you plan on doing anything about it or do you just not care?
They seem to be having fun. Why should I ruin that for them.
Your OP says it gets you down.
You ought to consider your collective futures. If he's satisfying her needs like that, it will be likely you'll be raising his kids for him. And when she decides to split and half of your estate, and demand maintenance, you'll be sorry you ditch her earlier.
Fair enough, but if she's taking you for a mug i would just dump her.
What does that mean taking you for a mug?
I said kind of.. he seems to be satisfying her.
Considering that you told me he became your "ex-friend" by sleeping with your previous girlfriend and now is making moves on your wife and all you can say is that at least he seems to be satisfying her....... I really have to call BS now.
I'm very passive that's just my personality. Sorry.
Time to sit down with your wife, garner up your courage and have an honest discussion.
Time to sit down with your wife, garner up your courage and have an honest discussion.
