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Should I? Shouldn't I?

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So my company recently hired this guy to intern with them for the summer. He's usually not working at my office but he was there for a few days last week. We got talking a little bit and I ended up friending him on Facebook because I thought he was cool and I had a little crush on him. According to FB he's into guys which is a plus (I did get the feeling that he was gay).

There's an 11 year age difference between us and I don't necessarily think there's a huge potential for anything but you never know. This morning I unexpectedly came across his profile on OKCupid. Now I'm torn if I should message him saying "fancy seeing you here" or not to bother. I don't want to freak him out or anything but it could be a good way to break the ice for he and I to get to know each other better. Right know he doesn't know that I'm into guys so that might be a good common ground for us two.

Anyone have any advice or similar experiences?
 
How about just saying "Hi" in person?

If someone I worked with and didn't know at all sent me a message on a cruising/dating site I'd be a little creeped out.
 
^ Exactly.

Get to know people in real time.

Otherwise it just looks like cyberstalking.
 
I agree with the face to face method. Keep in mind that if he is an intern, it could be perceived as you putting undue influence on him and end up in a discrimination suit. Take it slow and make sure he is participating of his own free and eager will.
 
Nomenclature said:
No, you shouldn't. Don't even go there.
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DITTO -- You should maintain a very high level "friendly co-worker" relationship and NOTHING MORE -- It's problematic on many many levels to do otherwise. And def don't freak him out by telling him yolu saw him on other sites. If he talked to you - maybe he already knows more than you think - I"m sure he's got gaydar too ..

A wise man once said:

"DON'T GET YOUR HONEY WHERE YOU GET YOUR MONEY" !!
 
The guy is an intern with your company. That means he is off limits. Be professional, friendly and nothing more.
 
Thanks for the advice guys. Very good points all around. I will let sleeping dogs lie.
 
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