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*Sigh* Why do I always fall for the straight ones?
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Re: *Sigh* Why do I always fall for the straight o
same thing here, only i dont look at it as a problem i think thats just the way things are, straight/straight acting guys can be very appealing, specially if their teasing you
ive been there before, but now its my turn to play the "straight guy" teasing my closeted cute young classm8, i can totally see how confuse he is and i also see myself in him.
i just wanna give him a crash course on how its like to be a closeted gay guy so he will now how to handle these situations in the future
Its only a Game
same thing here, only i dont look at it as a problem i think thats just the way things are, straight/straight acting guys can be very appealing, specially if their teasing you
ive been there before, but now its my turn to play the "straight guy" teasing my closeted cute young classm8, i can totally see how confuse he is and i also see myself in him.
i just wanna give him a crash course on how its like to be a closeted gay guy so he will now how to handle these situations in the future
Its only a Game
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Re: *Sigh* Why do I always fall for the straight o
I'm in the same boat. I've developed a serious man crush on one of my straight friends and I can't seem to get this dude outta my head. The wierd thing is that he is not that good looking and not the typical guy I'll go for, but, yet my feelings are getting stronger daily!!!!
I'm in the same boat. I've developed a serious man crush on one of my straight friends and I can't seem to get this dude outta my head. The wierd thing is that he is not that good looking and not the typical guy I'll go for, but, yet my feelings are getting stronger daily!!!!
Re: *Sigh* Why do I always fall for the straight o
i dont think ive ever posted anything on here but am shocked by how many of you are going through the same thing. I to am stuck in this same dilemma. I am completely in love with one of my straight friends. The problem here is that i am not out (i even tried maintaining a girlfriend) to anyone and have done a pretty good job never letting anyone figure out my secret (i dont want to be gay). This guy is my best friend in the world and also my roommate right now. Nothing will ever happen between us and i know that, however, i cant stop thinking about him and fantasizing that for just one night something would happen. For a while he was single and we hung out all the time. It was great, granted there was no sex involved but at least we spent a lot of time together. Now he is back with his ex-girlfriend from a few years ago and i pretty much get blown off everyday. So here i am, looking to complete strangers for advice for i have no one else to turn to and am growing more and more devastated everyday...
i dont think ive ever posted anything on here but am shocked by how many of you are going through the same thing. I to am stuck in this same dilemma. I am completely in love with one of my straight friends. The problem here is that i am not out (i even tried maintaining a girlfriend) to anyone and have done a pretty good job never letting anyone figure out my secret (i dont want to be gay). This guy is my best friend in the world and also my roommate right now. Nothing will ever happen between us and i know that, however, i cant stop thinking about him and fantasizing that for just one night something would happen. For a while he was single and we hung out all the time. It was great, granted there was no sex involved but at least we spent a lot of time together. Now he is back with his ex-girlfriend from a few years ago and i pretty much get blown off everyday. So here i am, looking to complete strangers for advice for i have no one else to turn to and am growing more and more devastated everyday...
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Re: *Sigh* Why do I always fall for the straight o
You know...him hanging out shirtless all day doesn't help things. I literally have to tell him "Go put a friggin' shirt on" because it gets me worked up too much. We've hung out like ten days in a row, and he's just...awesome. I hope you guys don't mind me using this thread to vent, because it's the only outlet I truly have.
You know...him hanging out shirtless all day doesn't help things. I literally have to tell him "Go put a friggin' shirt on" because it gets me worked up too much. We've hung out like ten days in a row, and he's just...awesome. I hope you guys don't mind me using this thread to vent, because it's the only outlet I truly have.
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Re: *Sigh* Why do I always fall for the straight o
Please...as if it bothers me to read hot stuff about hot straight dudes walking about shirtless ´n all that jazz.
KEEP IT UP! UPDATE MORE OFTEN!
Please...as if it bothers me to read hot stuff about hot straight dudes walking about shirtless ´n all that jazz.
KEEP IT UP! UPDATE MORE OFTEN!
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Re: *Sigh* Why do I always fall for the straight o
So...kind of a development. Nothing major honestly.
He's being a lot more touchy-feely lately. Tickling, rough housing etc, but...it's sensual in a way.
For example we were watching a movie the other night, and he laid down with his head on my lap.
It took everything for me not to pop a boner right there, (resulting in a surprise ear exam) but somehow I kept everything at bay. And later I started to actually "pet" his head. He didn't say anything, or complain about it.
NOW! I know most of you would think "Oh he's at the very least bi/curious/into you, yet the things that bothers me is the fact that when this one girl calls, it's like he has to go outside and talk to her, as if the world would end. I play it off as if it's cool, but I get so angry at him...
So...kind of a development. Nothing major honestly.
He's being a lot more touchy-feely lately. Tickling, rough housing etc, but...it's sensual in a way.
For example we were watching a movie the other night, and he laid down with his head on my lap.
It took everything for me not to pop a boner right there, (resulting in a surprise ear exam) but somehow I kept everything at bay. And later I started to actually "pet" his head. He didn't say anything, or complain about it.
NOW! I know most of you would think "Oh he's at the very least bi/curious/into you, yet the things that bothers me is the fact that when this one girl calls, it's like he has to go outside and talk to her, as if the world would end. I play it off as if it's cool, but I get so angry at him...
Re: *Sigh* Why do I always fall for the straight o
Hmmm the green-eyed monster rears its ugly head. I've had a similar experience with a gay friend of mine who has a boyfriend, yet I'm still so attracted to. The most awkward thing was that while he was visiting me (for 10 days...way too long for any normal friend) his boyfriend had to call me so it wasn't outrageous with roaming charges. So...yeah. That was weird, especially since I haven't met him at all. We know who each other are of course, and it's not without its fair share of controversy, but that's really another long, messed up story.
Now for my intake...I don't really think he has to be bi(-curious) or gay to be doing these things. My roommate from last year at university was similar. We'd hug all the time and talk about anything. He even volunteered to go get HIV tested with me so that I'd actually go. What it seems like to me is that he just really cares about you as a person and isn't afraid to show it. That's really lucky. This may be the closest you'll get to actually having a relationship with this guy, and it seems like you're okay with that on the most part. Besides, any move towards more has to come from him and not from you. Just know you're really lucky that you have someone (anyone) who treats you like that. Not all of us do...
Hmmm the green-eyed monster rears its ugly head. I've had a similar experience with a gay friend of mine who has a boyfriend, yet I'm still so attracted to. The most awkward thing was that while he was visiting me (for 10 days...way too long for any normal friend) his boyfriend had to call me so it wasn't outrageous with roaming charges. So...yeah. That was weird, especially since I haven't met him at all. We know who each other are of course, and it's not without its fair share of controversy, but that's really another long, messed up story.
Now for my intake...I don't really think he has to be bi(-curious) or gay to be doing these things. My roommate from last year at university was similar. We'd hug all the time and talk about anything. He even volunteered to go get HIV tested with me so that I'd actually go. What it seems like to me is that he just really cares about you as a person and isn't afraid to show it. That's really lucky. This may be the closest you'll get to actually having a relationship with this guy, and it seems like you're okay with that on the most part. Besides, any move towards more has to come from him and not from you. Just know you're really lucky that you have someone (anyone) who treats you like that. Not all of us do...
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Re: *Sigh* Why do I always fall for the straight o
Add my name to the list of gay men falling for a straight friend AGAIN. It happened last year and it did not end very well. This time it came out of left field and it truly is confusing to me. I've never had a serious relationship and I’m not out to many people (My parents, my sister, and my close friend), and I have no one to talk to about my feelings or what I am going through where I live and it is very hard for me. I sometimes think that straight men love the idea that we are lusting over them and we know we can’t have them, yet they tend to tease.
I guess that is life though.
Add my name to the list of gay men falling for a straight friend AGAIN. It happened last year and it did not end very well. This time it came out of left field and it truly is confusing to me. I've never had a serious relationship and I’m not out to many people (My parents, my sister, and my close friend), and I have no one to talk to about my feelings or what I am going through where I live and it is very hard for me. I sometimes think that straight men love the idea that we are lusting over them and we know we can’t have them, yet they tend to tease.
I guess that is life though. 
hokidoki
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Re: *Sigh* Why do I always fall for the straight o
I'm on the same boat...
it sucks.
I'm on the same boat...
it sucks.
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Re: *Sigh* Why do I always fall for the straight o
Ugh I made the mistake of falling for my best friend. It got worse when he told me he loved me and started fliritng knowing i'm gay and was madly in love with him. He was to scared to ever pursue anything with me. Now that i think about it . . . it kinda was the popular gay love story. . . Guy falls for best friend who happens to be on the foot ball team who is tall and handsome and drop dead sexy.. WTF was i thinking
Ugh I made the mistake of falling for my best friend. It got worse when he told me he loved me and started fliritng knowing i'm gay and was madly in love with him. He was to scared to ever pursue anything with me. Now that i think about it . . . it kinda was the popular gay love story. . . Guy falls for best friend who happens to be on the foot ball team who is tall and handsome and drop dead sexy.. WTF was i thinking
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Re: *Sigh* Why do I always fall for the straight o
JESUS CHRIST. I thought I had control of my feelings but I'm even DREAMING about him now! Where's the "Stop falling for straight friend" pill when you need it?!
JESUS CHRIST. I thought I had control of my feelings but I'm even DREAMING about him now! Where's the "Stop falling for straight friend" pill when you need it?!
Re: *Sigh* Why do I always fall for the straight o
I'm bi and I have a straight best friend that would treat me for dinner, a movie and sleep with me in my bed. There are no sexual feelings involved, but it is more of pure friendship. He moved to Florida and I miss him a lot.
So guys, it is possible to build meaningful friendships without the complexities of romance.
I'm bi and I have a straight best friend that would treat me for dinner, a movie and sleep with me in my bed. There are no sexual feelings involved, but it is more of pure friendship. He moved to Florida and I miss him a lot.
So guys, it is possible to build meaningful friendships without the complexities of romance.
Re: *Sigh* Why do I always fall for the straight o
All I can say is it sucks. Every little thing they do you want to take to mean that they are secretly gay and that they'll fall for you...yet you know that isn't true. Doesn't stop you from hoping, though. Just wish it were easier to stop obsessing. When the guy is perfect in every way, masculine, hot, smart and even a great sense of humor plus he even smells sexy (looking at a picture on a phone...no physical contact), it makes it tough.
All I can say is it sucks. Every little thing they do you want to take to mean that they are secretly gay and that they'll fall for you...yet you know that isn't true. Doesn't stop you from hoping, though. Just wish it were easier to stop obsessing. When the guy is perfect in every way, masculine, hot, smart and even a great sense of humor plus he even smells sexy (looking at a picture on a phone...no physical contact), it makes it tough.
Re: *Sigh* Why do I always fall for the straight o
i think my recent thread was similar, so i will post the link here, its really hard when we get mixed signals isnt it?
http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=229721
i think my recent thread was similar, so i will post the link here, its really hard when we get mixed signals isnt it?
http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=229721
Unforgotten
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Re: *Sigh* Why do I always fall for the straight o
So yeah, now I'm slowly turning away from him for my own health, and because reality bitch slapped me hard.
He had about three hickeys the other day, and about a day or two before that I saw him check out a girl's ass. THAT made me wake up and realize that he's not gay, he's just secure in his sexuality, and even though I've always known this, when you finally realize it...it sucks!
So I really doubt there'll be anymore updates or anything on this, I'm always going to love him, but it's going to have to stay as a friend.
So yeah, now I'm slowly turning away from him for my own health, and because reality bitch slapped me hard.
He had about three hickeys the other day, and about a day or two before that I saw him check out a girl's ass. THAT made me wake up and realize that he's not gay, he's just secure in his sexuality, and even though I've always known this, when you finally realize it...it sucks!
So I really doubt there'll be anymore updates or anything on this, I'm always going to love him, but it's going to have to stay as a friend.
Re: *Sigh* Why do I always fall for the straight o
firstly, having a crush on a str8 guy can and should be totally harmless (stalking is taking it a bit far!). personally, i think it's a bit like having a crush on a pornstar. for most of us, we know we've never gonna get them so it's a safe crush to have. for me it's the same with str8 guys. i allow myself little crushes every now and again, keep them in check and never ever act upon them!
secondly, there are a lot of str8 guys who like to tease. a friend of mine always walks round without his top when he knows there's a guy about who fancies him. he has a gf who doesn't mind because she says he's just vain and likes the attention! so many guys like this!
i say if he's going to buy you stuff, fair enough, i guess it's more how he approached the situation. but if you feel like things are getting a bit out of control, tell him you don't feel comfortable with the level of affection he's displaying!
firstly, having a crush on a str8 guy can and should be totally harmless (stalking is taking it a bit far!). personally, i think it's a bit like having a crush on a pornstar. for most of us, we know we've never gonna get them so it's a safe crush to have. for me it's the same with str8 guys. i allow myself little crushes every now and again, keep them in check and never ever act upon them!
secondly, there are a lot of str8 guys who like to tease. a friend of mine always walks round without his top when he knows there's a guy about who fancies him. he has a gf who doesn't mind because she says he's just vain and likes the attention! so many guys like this!
i say if he's going to buy you stuff, fair enough, i guess it's more how he approached the situation. but if you feel like things are getting a bit out of control, tell him you don't feel comfortable with the level of affection he's displaying!
