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Hi All, Usual thread that's been posted here 1000 times. have a mate I'm convinced is bisexual and I'm considering coming out to him that I fancy him. We have had some touchy feely moments when drunk, and he is constantly baring his bum to me. normally only when we are in company but he did tell me once he would love to see me naked. anyway all this asides, when would the right moment be to tell him what I'm feeling. anyone ever been in a similar situation where they can share advice/experience? Thanks guys
 
Yes and it was the best decision of my life. Make the move or lose the move. Remind me, how much younger are you getting each day?
 
pandh200 said:
Hi All, Usual thread that's been posted here 1000 times. have a mate I'm convinced is bisexual and I'm considering coming out to him that I fancy him. We have had some touchy feely moments when drunk, and he is constantly baring his bum to me. normally only when we are in company but he did tell me once he would love to see me naked. anyway all this asides, when would the right moment be to tell him what I'm feeling. anyone ever been in a similar situation where they can share advice/experience? Thanks guys
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Based on your description, it sounds like you have a good chance of this working out well. Be sure not to say the words "bisexual, gay, or straight." A few weeks after my wife left me, a very close "straight" friend of mine shared his feelings.
 
play his game

show him your ass too.. whether it's mooning him the way he does you.. changing in front of him. show a little skin and see his reaction

that's what i did and eventually we got to the point where we hook up every once in a while

and shoot him compliments jokingly when he fools around. confident straight guys love showing off. at the very least you'll get a show for the spank bank

you've been talking about this friend for a while. make more of an effort to hang out with him. shoot the shit, hang out, drink beers, go to the bar. he plays the game, you play it back. don't be so shy
 
Back when I was in High School, everyone knew I was Bi. Guys in the locker room or even the bathroom would be like, you trying to see this. Then drop their pants. I have only ever been completely honest with people and they tend to not really care. Like I was yesterdays news. Then more you are up front about something, then people get bored very easy and move on to something else. I say just be yourself. Try not to worry what others may or may not think of you. After all, you are the only one who has to live in your body. Only you get a vote on what you do.
 
Well said. Thanks!
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Back when I was in High School, everyone knew I was Bi. Guys in the locker room or even the bathroom would be like, you trying to see this. Then drop their pants. I have only ever been completely honest with people and they tend to not really care. Like I was yesterdays news. Then more you are up front about something, then people get bored very easy and move on to something else. I say just be yourself. Try not to worry what others may or may not think of you. After all, you are the only one who has to live in your body. Only you get a vote on what you do.
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I would suggest being honest then more honest. I'd tell him that you're bi and let him digest that. Once he's comfortable with that, which may be immediately, tell him you fancy him and see what develops. Good luck and I hope you're dreams come true.
 
You two sound pretty close, so I would just come right out and ask him if he wants to get it on. You've already had touch feely moments, although that's not unusual if people are drunk. But he shows you his butt, and has said he'd love to see you naked, so that's pretty explicit on his part. Any guy (straight, gay, bi) wouldn't say he would love to see you naked if he didn't. The right moment to tell him you want him would be when you two are alone, in a relaxed mood & horny mood. Just make sure you tell him when you're sober, you want a clear headed answer, that way there won't be any regrets later. I've been in the same situation more than a few times. It usually turns out well if you're pretty sure he wants you. One of my friends that worked with me was a jerk off fantasy, but he was married with 2 bratty kids. We hung out often outside of work, and when he was going through a divorce I invited him to join me and 4 other guys on a ski trip in Lake Tahoe. We shared a room, he brought food and I brought weed. We went night skiing as soon as we got there, but it was brutally windy and cold. As we were riding the chair lift up, he said he wanted to just go back to the hotel. When I asked what he wanted to he said "go smoke a bowl and blow each other in the shower". I laughed, he didn't. That was all the encouragement I needed! We were up all night sucking and fucking. So go ahead and make your move, you just might end up getting the fuck of a lifetime!
 
And if he ever says again that he'd love to see you naked, you can always say, don't make me call your bluff on this. If he dares you to do it, it's a safe bet he's dying to see you naked, and you can - if you need to - just strip and say, called your bluff. It can be a fun thing instead of a fear thing, although it does sound like you guys like each other's company.
 
How about "just coming out of the shower" when he arrives, or be sitting around in boxers when he arrives?
 
Even if just hornry str8 guys like the rest of us enjoy good sex. If they know its safe and no one will ever no thy will be back time and time again.
 
Why haven't you two fucked already? You're going to have to get past being shy and go for the kill. You want it, so take it.
 
When he wants to see you naked, tell him lets both get naked, then comment how great he looks and offer to service him. Worked for me with a guy I was getting signals, like the ones you described, go for it you'll be sorry you didn't. GOOD LUCK.
 
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