Size Concerns

[confusedboy23]

Hey buddy, don't worry about your dick size nor should you worry about his! If a guy only loves you because of your dick, then he's not worth your love or your time. As the saying goes, it's not what you have but how you use it. To me, dick size does not matter at all as long as it is connected to a brain!!!

 

[UrbanBOYS]

I agree with confusedboy. Size does not matter.

 

[randyreese]

Size definitely doesn't matter, it's how you use it and of course all about love.

 

[Eagle653]

I agree with everyone. It's love that matters. And, besides, fivers are very respectable; don't beat yourself up over something normal. And, don't be embarrassed or apologetic about your dick. Nothing is sexier than a guy who exudes confidence and is comfortable with himself. Have a great time and show this guy how much you love him.

 

[SilverRRCloud]

I'd love to agree with every0 else here and say: 'the size doesn't matter'.

I have been a total top ever since I started messin' around with other dudes at the gentle and impressionable age of 12.

IMHE, to quite a few, it really does not matter and they are happy with what they have at hand. (No pun intended.)

To the few others, the size is everything.

There is no reason to get panicky over it. You have got, what you have got and that's not going to change, one way or the other.

So, you guys ought to give a try or even several tries and see, if this works for both of you.

If it doesn't, well, it just does not, whîch only goes to say that you might not be compatible in that field. Just the way the things may (or may not) turn out to be.

Do not worry too much about the things you cannot change anyway.

Do not subscribe to the popular but largely false theory that 'the bigger the better' or that a bigger guy is always automatically the top dude. Life is just a bit more complex than that.

Relax, forget the panic, stay safe and go for it.

Have fun.

SC

 

[versa39]

i have had from a small 3" to an OMG 11.5", and i tell you what...small guys try harder and are better at it......i have found that the big ones are just that, and they expect you to do most of the work cuz, well, they brought the tool.
the best are from 4.5 - 7 range..most comfortable and best fit.

 

[lapafrax]

This must have been around before...
My new man is a bottom and I'm a versatile. When we're to make love, he says he wants me on top. I'm confident of my other abilities in bed, except in anal sex. I don't know how big he is and he won't say as he's a bit old-fashioned. I've topped once and he's bottomed twice, so we're both new to anal sex. But I'm 5" but with good girth (There, I said it) and I am worried I cannot satisfy him. I'd not want to let him down...
Can anal sex with a fiver give a guy pleasure? I can't lengthen it, so I'm a bit panicky now. I know he loves me, though. That's why I'm asking.

I won't lie, to ME size matters to an extent. But that's only me and is obviously not representative of anyone else! Has your man told you that size matters to him or that he's a "size queen"?

Having said that, I think knowing how to use it is VERY important. I once bottomed for a 3.5" (seriously!!) and it was one of the best shags I've ever had.

 

[trawler69]

I truly believe that size is irrelevant, infact If I'm giving a blowjob smaller is better for both of us, I can get more in and give more pleasure, and he can receive that pleasure. If I'm taking it up my ass it's more pleasure and less pain so please don't worry about it, you are perfectly normal and he is lucky that you care enough to worry about it.

 

[puka-pride]

ok well i'm not gonna be all size doesn't matter don't worry if your in love blah blah blah because i'm in a very bitter mood right now when it coems to relationships

BUT your in luck because size doesn't really matter

think about it.. asses are generally tight... they will expand to fit whatever is in them.. so no matter what the size it will most likely be a nice snug fit

also remember you can have a big cock.. you can have a small cock... it doesn't matter how big it is because you can do a bad job with either... if u don't know what your doing with it he won't enjoy it half as much as if u do... be gentle and start slow using lots of lube... kissing him and making sure he feels safe... and when he starts to get really worked up pick up the pace... u wanna last at least 15 minutes.. unless he cums first.. if u have a problem lasting u can either jerk off before u do it so your less horny.. or u can wear multiple condoms..

 

[confusedboy23]

Is there any good way to fuck? I'm so blur. I plan on kissing him, giving him a rim job and lubing him up, then inserting a finger or two before I enter him...is this ok? Any other things to do?

There is no good or bad, right or wrong way to fuck! What you do and how you do things totally depend on you and the guy. If it was a special guy, I would spend ages just cuddling and kissing but if it was a one-night random fuck, then I let be just that - a quick suck and fuck with no passion. Just do what feels right for you and for him.

 

[3nipples]

It's like chocolate. It's always good and sometimes it's better. Don't think about it too much and go with the flow.

In response to confusedboy23, I spend ages cuddling and kissing with a one-night random fuck as well, but maybe that's thats what I'm doing wrong because it usually turns into repeat encounters

 

[Smitho]

Try not to think about it to much in advance and remember to ENJOY it, this is supposed to be a fun and enjoyable experience and if you are worrying it won't be fun for you. So relax, and go with the flow. Also talk to your guy, ask what he likes, what feels good and tell him what you like. There is no shame in a lack of experience.

Oh the question of size, I think it is unimportant and I personnaly get a bit intimidated, when someone pulls some huge moster out their trousers!

Enjoy it.

 

[gaz1978]

5" is plenty to satisfy a man.

In fact, I'm happier when a guy pulls his boxers down and he's around the 6" mark than I am when it hangs down to the floor!!