size queen shame?

[aethelreddansforth]

maybe it's just me, but it seems that it's now "bad" to be a size queen. why? surely if we as a modern society accept sexual openness, then we should tolerate ALL sexual likes, provided they aren't harming others.
if people can like other body parts like boobs, feet, legs, arms, lips, eyes, etc., why not dicks?
i get that merely saying one likes big cocks makes some insecure. without being harsh, so fucking what? I'd argue that suppressing people from saying their desires is "harsh".
I will admit that i enjoy seeing a big dick in the flesh. and i mostly bottom, and i enjoy the sensation of a longer dick going up to the hilt, as it were. I don't see why that is bad, and us size queens shouldn't be afraid to like what we like since some are hurt and offended. I feel that's what this "size queen shame" boils down to.

 

[MaxBlack]

I'd argue it's a matter of perspective. If you'd be perfectly fine with a top saying he doesn't want to have sex with you if you have a gaping hole for a bottom, then there's no problem for you to exclude from your encounters guys who's cocks are not up to your taste.
To each their own. There's no obligation to have sex with anyone you don't want to. If you're looking for a partner then it's a whole different subject.

 

[aethelreddansforth]

I'd argue it's a matter of perspective. If you'd be perfectly fine with a top saying he doesn't want to have sex with you if you have a gaping hole for a bottom, then there's no problem for you to exclude from your encounters guys who's cocks are not up to your taste.
To each their own. There's no obligation to have sex with anyone you don't want to. If you're looking for a partner then it's a whole different subject.

people have free choice. nobody can ever undermine others' free choice. unless you're stating that people have to fuck or date anybody of any description. It seems you want the world to conform to your insecurities. I know I'm not everybody's type. what can I do about it? i can't change their view.

 

[curiousbob]

I see nothing wrong with liking big dicks, or any other body part. Some of us admit to liking feet (not my thing ) and there seems to be no back lash. Society is far from being open, we are slowly being silenced by a conservative under tow whose only desire is to exist in a bubble of protective silence, worse still is that the expectation is that every other bugger has to live in there with them! We are being censored by our own online peer groups. When one cannot admit to enjoying the larger male appendage on a gay mens forum then we are all fucked!

 

[BlondMichael]

maybe it's just me, but it seems that it's now "bad" to be a size queen. why? surely if we as a modern society accept sexual openness, then we should tolerate ALL sexual likes, provided they aren't harming others.
if people can like other body parts like boobs, feet, legs, arms, lips, eyes, etc., why not dicks?
i get that merely saying one likes big cocks makes some insecure. without being harsh, so fucking what? I'd argue that suppressing people from saying their desires is "harsh".
I will admit that i enjoy seeing a big dick in the flesh. and i mostly bottom, and i enjoy the sensation of a longer dick going up to the hilt, as it were. I don't see why that is bad, and us size queens shouldn't be afraid to like what we like since some are hurt and offended. I feel that's what this "size queen shame" boils down to.

Well I am not going to lie!! I find large cocks very sexy. My preference is more thick than long.