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Sleepin with my best friend...

Merry Christmas to you too.

You and your friend both sound like nice, loving people. I'm glad you've found each other, and I've enjoyed reading your thread and all the good and interesting advice everyone conveyed.

All the best to both of you!
 
riconrudy said:
You are exactly right...I need to be thankful for what I have. There really aren't too many men who have what my friend and I have. I don't lay there all night wishing I could take this to the next level. I am generally just thinking what a great friendship we have and how going any further would screw it up. Not to contradict myself, I wouldn't mind taking it further, but that is NOT my mindset. I thank God everyday for the time we have together and the fact that I can have such a caring person in my life. And trust me, I do everything I can to show him how much I love him. I am even starting to think that if he made a move, I might have to resist just to do us both a favor. Merry Christmas everyone!
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That's a more mature attitude than what nine out of ten people I know have.
I think he's got a prize of a friend, too. :gogirl:
 
riconrudy said:
Does he know about me? No, I just don't know he would react. Keep in mind, this is my first time "sleeping" with another guy. I have always had homosexual tendencies, but because of my Christianity and the other normal issues that go along with coming out, I have never acted on them. I know this is going to open up a whole new can of worms with everyone, but I have to be honest. At this point in my life, I am perfectly happy staying where I am. So, I guess I should just shut my mouth and appreciate what I have.
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Honestly I think there may be something there, but there is a saying "Good Things Come To Those Who Wait". If I was you I wouldn't rush anything, just enjoy what you have now. The same way he admitted to you how much he loved you, he will admit his true feelings for you, but like I said before just give it time man. ..|
 
MoltenRock said:
Now, to the original poster I'm going to be the dissenting opinion here I guess and say that it sounds like you should take it to the next level. Try spooning with him, playing footsie, or other "touchy-feelie" type activity when you sleep. I think he's more than just a str8 friend.
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That's my feeling, too. In this particular case, this
I thank God everyday for the time we have together....
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sounds more like religious-backed denial rather than true good intentions.
 
MoltenRock said:
If you haven't already read books by Daniel A. Helminiak, Ph.D. I highly recommend him in your studies of the scriptures.
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Fr. Helminiak's book is good. Quite a bit of the content is based upon Dr John Boswell's two books on the subject. Helminiak's books are easier to read, probably for an attendee of a Christian university, the Boswell books will give you more background to work with since he was fluent in many of the languages and he translates from the original texts.
 
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