but strictly as friends because we're both not each other's type.
Like you say: you are friends only and you are not each other's type.
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So, the guy is not your type but you asked him for a sleepover at your place and it turned out that your bed was small, and you guys had to get very close to each to the point that you even felt his boner?
this one night i asked him to come over and he slept over. since the bed was small we were very close to each other and i accidentally felt his boner.
Why would you organize a sleepover at the place with one small bed, if the guy is really 'not your type'? You knew, there was no other alternative but to sleep together in a very small bed. You knew, you were going to snug close to each other? I mean, you must have been aware of the size of your own bed, rite?
he keeps telling me that he just wants to be friends with me, but i feel like he's b/sing me...not that i'm interested in him, but i'm just wondering if he's interested in me then why won't he just admit it? this one night he also asked me to massage him and i said i would if he would reciprocate and double the time i did for him and he agreed. then he asked if he could sleep over again and i said no. so is this guy interested or perhaps he just wants friendship? i really think he is interested.
So, you are not interested in him? Why would you be so curious to know, if he is really interested in you? It makes no difference to you anyway. Rite?
Why wouldn't he admit that he is interested? Say, two reasons:
One. No one really likes rejections. (Remember, he is NOT your type. And he knows that.)
Two. He sees no reason to give you another free ego boost. (Sue him!)
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Look, all the good things in life start with a bit of honesty, too. Ask yourself, what is that you really want:
a) just friends? Cool, get going, talk sports, guys and gals, drink beer together, go fishing, do 'the guys thing together'. You are just friends. No need to organize sleepovers in very small beds and exchange masseges. (If you ask me, you have got to double the time???)
b) friends with benefits? Stop playing games and spill it out. You want your piece of action there. You are not going to get married anytime soon, but you want some fun out of it and the other dude is dropping hints left and right. Cool. Go for it and have fun.
c) you have other plans and ideas?
Just my 2 cents?
SC
