Sleeping with a cock up your ass

[Jory]

Been there done that.....next fantasy

 

[gayjay22]

it sounds hot. but theirs a real risk of tearing from movement in ur sleep.

 

[morgaes]

Sounds very sexy, and intimate.

 

[TravisMT81]

I have heard of guys being able to do this, I personally have not tried it. But my ex was always hard and we would spoon all night and he would keep slipping into me like it was an accident lol!!

 

[The Reviewer]

Now how the hell do you get to sleep with someones cock lodged in your ass? I'm figuring somebody in the relationship must suffer from priapism. Perhaps there's Viagra or Cialis involved.....I don't know. And it may not be stellar if someone were to have a bowel movement.

 

[sweet_taboo]

I love spooning and falling asleep with my guy's cock in my ass. At some point during the night his dick always slips out, but it's right there nestled between my ass cheeks ready to slide back inside my ass when he gets hard again....a very, very nice way to be awakened.

 

[Green_Man_007]

last night i had sex with this guy i met and we fucked after we were done having sex he sugested something new i agreed for some reason i was still horny we decided to sleep with his dick up my ass wow i slept good last night but so far my whole has been in a little pain it felt so good and i slept like a baby but is this safe

Actually, I've told boyfriends, "If you're cock's in my ass when I wake up, you have my advanced permission to fuck me while I'm sleeping, so it won't be rape."

Sometimes I wake up being spooned that way, so I tug his arm tighter around me, and drift back off to sleep.

 

[RRRalph]

How intimate

 

[tomersh]

It is. It's pretty nice.

so i understand from this remark that you've tried it........mmm....what an image...by the way quoting a previous post ..Were you the hotdog or the bun?

 

[Shepherd 2]

He's right. My boyfriend always stays in me for at least a half hour after
he is done. I love the feeling of closeness, with him in me and on top of
me.

As to sleeping like that all night, I couldn't do it. I need to move around.

This is what my partner and I do. It works. Sometimes the time is longer and sometimes the time is shorter depending on what each is experiencing and the next days schedule. Sex is about mutual joy and satisfaction. Perhaps that is why God gave us the gift of speech and reason. What is great for one couple may be terrible for another. I could have sex several times in a night, which is neither good for me or my partner. Just being in and I am the top, the pressure keeps me between flaccid and hard. It can be done, but it is ridiculous not to discuss the pros and cons each time it is done. That is what love is all about, being there for each other, but in a way that is sensible and works.

The questioin here in partneres is to develop both trust and good communication. Sometimes each has to be able to negotiate. It takes a while, but after a year or two it can be very exciting.
I worry more about always being the top and he always being the bottom, although he and I only about 25% of the time engage in that style of love making. We have oral, docking, frottage, 69, massage with mutual masturbationi, different positions for each thing, sometimes in the shower, sometimes in the lounge chair, or on the living room floor before the fireplace.

Do we make mistakes or play games from time to time. Yes, but ever that is talked over and if a mistake we reconcile and (lol, really)
make love another time. Interesting to say for us, if we sere to cuddle with me in him all night, and we have not, it would probably be before the fireplace in the winter. Remember I usually prefer to fuck with us facing each other. My biggest anxiety is that we will need to work through my anxiety and resistance to being a bottom sometime out of mutual love for one another or out of necessity for my health or his has changed. But I am confident after seventeen years that we are likely to work it out. Listen to each other, then discuss is a rule of thumb for us. There is often a tendency for men to act hurried and rush things. I am sometimes the worst offender, because I can cum on a dime without any touch. I love feeling connected though, and each of us likes to spoon at one time or another.

I hope this does not sound too complicated, for it is not. When love is at stake, it is amazing how much mutual respect and self-control can operate in a healthy relationship. Another rule, hard and fast like my cock usually is, is to never "let the sun go down on our anger." We are devoted to one another and to working things out before trying to sleep. This is not always convenient or what both of us initially want to do, but we sometimes drag each other by kicking and, screaming, into a reconciliation. So far it has not failed.
I also say, I must be partnered to a true saint. We consider ourselves married in the practice of our life and relationship, if not in the eyes of the state.
Shep+

 

[Hard4cumshots]

I've had guys suggest this to me but I find it uncomfortable...plus I like to be tight

Margaret Cho's mom: "If-a you hahv ass too much it no special"

 

[S60Turbo]

I actually fantasised about this for the longest time and did it with my guy a few times...........very erotic

 

[LarsVenice]

I used to fall asleep with my dick in my BF's ass. I stayed hard for a very long time after fucking him, and he wanted me to keep it there, but it didn't last all night. He fell asleep before I did, and he seemed to be comforted by having it there. I have to admit that I have spooned guys that were sleeping with me, but I was not really sure whether they were actually asleep at the time or not.

 

[RobbyIsTehCool]

I would simply suggest a bit of caution. It seems like a great way to breed bacteria and other nasties. Do what you want however.

If somethin starts a burning though, you get your ass to a doctor, pronto.

 

[neruda]

I like to toss and turn in my sleep.

I mean after the sex my sleep is my sleep.

And his is his.

Am I just plain unromantic then?

 

[Jory]

last night i had sex with this guy i met and we fucked after we were done having sex he sugested something new i agreed for some reason i was still horny we decided to sleep with his dick up my ass wow i slept good last night but so far my whole has been in a little pain it felt so good and i slpet like a baby but is this safe

Yeah I've done that both ways the sad thing is after awhile the dick does go soft.

 

[YaoiBoy276]

Well iv tried it once a few months ago(by accident really) and i enjoyed it for the most part, he was big enough to stay in me soft but the morning was not good. His morning erection was inside me and i forgot what was going on and woke up started and immediately rolled over.....well his penis sort of took an award angle inside me and neither of us were happy afterward, so BE WARNED as nice as it is, it can have.....repercussions

 

[mikeyb]

Interesting.......

 

[wanderer]

well if known many guys that are awake (and walking around) with a stick up their asses, so i suppose its ok to sleep with a dick up your ass

 

[LarsVenice]

Well iv tried it once a few months ago(by accident really) and i enjoyed it for the most part, he was big enough to stay in me soft but the morning was not good. His morning erection was inside me and i forgot what was going on and woke up started and immediately rolled over.....well his penis sort of took an award angle inside me and neither of us were happy afterward, so BE WARNED as nice as it is, it can have.....repercussions

That sounds intriguing - can you give us more details? Was it worse for him or worse for you? From what you said, I can't be sure.