Small Penis?

[JamesKim]

Okay, I have a few questions about dicks!!

First of all, do tops get turned on/turned off if the bottom has a small pecker. Not, like micro...but...say..about 4 inches?
I'm...still a virgin, so concerned about this >.<;

Thing about, it's not the size of it, but the way you use it. True or false?
I want to know if small peckers really feel like nothing, or just depends on how you use it.

If I am a small frame, should I stick to smaller ones?
I am not very tall, like, about 170 cm, a bit shorter (167 to be exact) , and my waste size is a 26.
I'm really afraid it'd hurt more If I do a big one. Also, just curious, what do you guys think is a big penis? Length and/or girth wise. I'm afraid if I say a weird size, I'd get embarrassed.

Also, does size vary among race? I will never ask straight men that because they'd definitely say yes to perpetuate the stereotype, so that it can overcome their insecurities (For crying out loud, how many cocks have they seen!? One!?). Online sources aren't reliable too, never cited on how many people they actually asked and stuff, plus...I bet the researchers are straight too (Stupid Straight people) and would try to bias the statistics.

I mean, who better to ask this question, than to my fellow gay men? I mean, they have a dick themselves and a dick on their lovers to actually compare too. Plus, I'm sure many people here has had/seen a lot of cock *wink wink*

Alright, help me out peoples!! Reply this ASAP (I finally have a date this week)

 

[kallipolis]

Rather than focus on so called vital statistics, permit your innermost feelings to lead you.

As an old song rhymes - it ain't what you have, it's the way that you use it, that gets things done. It ain't what you do, it's the way that you do it, that gets things done.

In other words, drop the clinical approach to human relationships and you will live a happier life.

 

[Corny]

The statistics are pretty accurate. The average penis is not that big With 4 inches you would be wit the smaller 50% of the population, so what? There are a lot shorter men, and just slightly more with a longer penis.
About anal sex, height and hurting - I am about your size, and I never had a problem - even with bigger ones. It all depends on the top though, and partly also on you and your preparation. Take your time, go slowly, use lots of lube. I am moving this thread to the Health forum .. have a look around there, there is a lot of advice for first timers

 

[KaraBulut]

To answer your question, gay men like dicks.

They like big dicks. They like small dicks. They like average dicks.

They like cut dicks. They like uncut dicks.

They like dicks that curve up. They like dicks that curve down. They like dicks that curve to the side.

As long as it is hard and works on demand, there's a gay guy out there that will like it.

Now. Go find him.

 

[hothunk222]

I'm a top and I prefer it if bottoms have a smaller penis, but it doesn't really matter as long as you have a nice ass! But hey, one day you'll find someone that will love you enough that the size of your penis wont matter to them one bit!!

 

[evil_danger]

As far as dating goes... I always think your dating the person not the penis so it shouldn't matter how big or small it is.

 

[JamesKim]

As far as dating goes... I always think your dating the person not the penis so it shouldn't matter how big or small it is.

I'm not concerned about my partner, I'm more concerned about myself... being a minority and all...

 

[evil_danger]

I'm not concerned about my partner, I'm more concerned about myself... being a minority and all...

Exactly, if anyone judges you on the size of your penis they arn't worth your time.

 

[mbamike]

If you want to compare small cocks, take a look at my gallery. I have a pretty small cock myself. It doesn't seem to bother the guy I am seeing.

Concentrate on the person and if you enjoy each others company.

 

[Nephelauxetic]

Thing about, it's not the size of it, but the way you use it. True or false?

Absolutely true. But a guy with a long and thick dick needs to do less imo. And it depends very much on the bottom. I never had a guy with a small dick that could give me the same as a guy with a long dick. But I haven't slept with that many men.

If I am a small frame, should I stick to smaller ones?

Why should you? Absolutely no.

I'm really afraid it'd hurt more If I do a big one.

That's really a matter of training. I also was afraid in the beginning and now 8 years of sex later I can take two...

Also, just curious, what do you guys think is a big penis? Length and/or girth wise. I'm afraid if I say a weird size, I'd get embarrassed.

15-16cm is normal, less is small, bigger is big. Bigger than 19cm and 6cm thickness is really thick.

Also, does size vary among race?

I'm pretty sure it does. But don't forget: in statistics the distribution doesn't say a lot about a particular sample

 

[JamesKim]

Oh...I give up...the date went horrible...

Oh well...I've always been a good boy all my life, I probably won't be prepared enough for the sex anyways.
At least I live away from my family now, hope someday I can finally find a guy DX

 

[Nephelauxetic]

What went wrong?

 

[danniflava]

it's not a turn-off if the guy has a small dick. it's only a turn-off if he feels really embarrassed by it!

& remember: it's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean.

 

[JamesKim]

What went wrong?

The guy was good looking, but was too closeted himself to make a move...
Which means, I, the bottom had to try (And I've never made a move once in my life). I didn't want to look like a whore with my attempts, so I just went with the flow, and the flow...was nothing basically...besides his attempt to hold my hand, then felt too embarrassed too.

Then he called me later that day saying how he just can't used to dating a guy yet...and I should give him some time LOL (Like I am REAL experienced myself). So what was supposed to be FUN, turned...awkward...

 

[Llosgach]

TBH it sounds like you're thinking way too much about this stuff. You can't really blame this guy for not making a move when you were so bothered about looking like a whore you didn't make one either. You were probably so busy analysing the situation that he thought you weren't interested. The trick with sex is to not think. If something embarassing happens, laugh about it. If you don't think you can take his cock, blow him. If he thinks your cock's too small just say 'fuck you' and be glad you've escaped being fucked by a loser.

 

[JamesKim]

If he thinks your cock's too small just say 'fuck you' and be glad you've escaped being fucked by a loser.

Hahaha, you are awesome! I don't cuss at people tho.

About the other things...the guy really DID look very uncomfortable... and when he TRIED to hold my hand, I just smiled...he felt weird again, and withdrawed.

Also, I'm actually not wanting sex that much, just...preparing for it if it comes. (I don't mean to generalize, but apparently sex is very expected as part of a date in the US) All I wanted was a freaking first kiss!

Ugh...I always see 2 very pretty looking guys kissing...it's so awesome...I really wish that happens to me, and I get a picture of that (I'm a pretty boy myself =))
The guy was pretty too!!! Awesome hair...which is hard to find in American men, most of you guys are more manly, with extremely hot bodies, and don't care about hairstyles (Short hair is also hot, don't get me wrong). This guy was Hot, Buff AND pretty....-SIghs-

 

[Nephelauxetic]

and I should give him some time

Will you?

You should not think like "oh, I'm like a whore, shit". That's bullshit. I did the same when I was young and it was only bad. Once, I had a date with a really hot guy and I was one the "I don't fuck on the first date"-trip. The result was that I didn't fuck him and never saw him again
First Sex is usually very bad - so it's better just to get over it and get some experience.

 

[JamesKim]

His "needing more time" means to break up.

 

[Llosgach]

Hahaha, you are awesome!

Shucks

Also, I'm actually not wanting sex that much, just...preparing for it if it comes. (I don't mean to generalize, but apparently sex is very expected as part of a date in the US) All I wanted was a freaking first kiss!

A good philosophy in life I always find: never do whats expected of you.

But seriously, man. If you don't want to do it, just don't. There's plenty of decent guys out there who are interested in more than just jumping into bed - romance isn't absent from the gay world. And don't let one bad experience get you down too much.

Ugh...I always see 2 very pretty looking guys kissing...it's so awesome...I really wish that happens to me, and I get a picture of that (I'm a pretty boy myself =))
The guy was pretty too!!! Awesome hair...which is hard to find in American men, most of you guys are more manly, with extremely hot bodies, and don't care about hairstyles (Short hair is also hot, don't get me wrong). This guy was Hot, Buff AND pretty....-SIghs-

You should come to England, lots of pretty boys here! I'm also thinking you should be posting some pics, after describing yourself as pretty

 

[splurge]

I'm always more embarsssed that I've been circumcised rather than the fact that I've got a smallish dick - but that's my problem.