So...anything new with ya'll?

[frankfrank]

The newest thing in my life, has been this big trip - now starting its 24th day. I've met/hung with some fun JUB'bers, mixed in a few days of business, done a lot of hobby-related visiting, seen people I've known as long as 46 years, driven close to 3,000 miles...

...and also doing a hell of a lot of good walking (30 miles or so?), even a "day of roller coasters" at Great Adventure in New Jersey.

 

[gdude30]

Wow pocky and alley have guys :O

Everyone is hooking up. I do agree with you though Alley. Playing the field is fun for a while but it's much more meaningful to be in a relationship. Well if you do enter one you'll find out how great it is. Also how powerful trust and love can really be.

[STRIKE]Is he a bear top? :O[/STRIKE]

But damn Pocky. Well congratulations.

I have been reading about your experiences with your boy Wiz. I think it was very honorable of both you to go get tested. Fights aren't always a bad thing either. You learn a lot more about each other and resolve conflicts and sometimes a stronger relationship can emerge.

As for me. I have been working this past week on a special and complicated spiced carrot cake. By working on I mean staying at my Sir's house all week. And everyday I've made a carrot cake and made the cream cheese frosting and the decorators icing.

In class we have been doing entremees and frozen entremes.

Yesterday in class I started my carrot cake and it kinda split but I frosted it. Unfortunately chef mislead me and the result was the frosting melted and the cake spread out and looked like a giant ufo. Regardless I froze it overnight and hoped for the best.

Today I fixed it and trimmed it, made new icing and frosted it and than decorated it with ribbons, shells, pipped carrots, and a marzipan bunny on top. He had a cotton tail that was basically a piped shell.

It's amazing because I won second place in class poll for best decorated cake. And the reason. I guess my classmates are sucker for a rabbit's ass made out of frosting T_T"

But the most important thing is I beat this jerk in my class who is an ass to me. But also that I was able to save my cake and it turned out great.

Also, my Sir and Brother left for a weekend together. So I am at their house watching their dogs. I found my Sir's porn and GOD DAMN is it freaking hot. I found that video with Brother in it as well. Even though he has a hood on it is pretty hot.

I do have some chores over here but it's okay. It's an honor to watch over my Sir's house and take care of my dogs. I also have access to all of Brother's toy's and my Sir's movies. Oh what a fun weekend it will be for this boy.

Although I work tomorrow. Almost perfect. But when they get back on monday I have school off and we can finish gay monopoly. Just 3 more rotations and I go on externship and than graduate.

 

[thewiz]

Wow...I tried to make my post using my new Storm Blackberry....obviously I hit some wrong keys! lol!

The boy and I had a bunch of friends over last night (about 10) and my old roommate is visiting from New York. We laughed, hit the hot tub about midnight, had some (lots) of drinks and the boy and I enjoyed the night (and this morning!)

I think we shall go out dancing tonight; maybe even another movie. We saw one the other day and it was fun with just the two of us; we shall see about tonight.

 

[alley]

Wow pocky and alley have guys :O



[STRIKE]Is he a bear top? :O[/STRIKE]

Yes and no...

He's a very hot bear cub--as hairy as you could ever want...but I am the top, babe.

 

[gdude30]

Yes and no...

He's a very hot bear cub--as hairy as you could ever want...but I am the top, babe.

I figured he'd be a bear cub or bear daddy type. Well that's great that you finally found someone. I remember how you'd post of going to the bars or just having a hard time finding someone.

Does he like cats? :O

This is totally off topic...

but Wiz, does your partner know you refer to him as 'the boy' when you talk about him to others? I'm just wondering because it seems sorta off (to me) for some reason. Almost as if he's property or inferior to you in some way.

I know you mean no harm by it, and I don't mean to be rude by asking.

I can understand the property thing but the inferior thing doesn't make sense to me.

I actually think it's kinda clever and cute the way Wiz says that. It also might be a Daddy/Son relationship. And there is nothing wrong with that. Same as a Dominant/submissive relationship.

Also every person or persons defines their own relationships. People also come up with creative or not so creative things to call their partner, boyfriend, or etc.

Such as "partner", "boyfriend", "other", or so forth. But I actually am curious if it's a Daddy/son relationship or if it's a more equal relationship. Although sometimes D/s relationships are more s>D.

I actually know someone who is in a Daddy/son relationship.

 

[thewiz]

Actually I started referring to him as "the boy" in lieu of "the boyfriend." Were you listening to our conversation in bed last night? lol!

After our arguement, he started calling me his "husband" and I am going to be doing the same....so no more "the boy!" I might still call him "the boy" but it is loving and in no way implies dominance or superiority.

We have never been a daddy/son relationship. Barry likes older guys and has always dated guys older since he came out at about age 15. He's 27 now and I'm 52. We are equals. As a matter of fact, he is a stickler that we are equals and neither of us is superior to the other. He pays his way (matter of fact he's taking me out to dinner tonight) and we both contribute to things equally. I sometimes feel a bit guilty because I do make more than he does....but that has always been our agreement.

He still keeps his apartment and we are trying to work out those types of details (although he spends most nights at my house).

I tried a daddy-son relationship once; I didn't care for it. The young man had been in two others and saw nothing wrong with it; I'm daddy but to my two kids and two stepkids.