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So apparently anal sex is not supposed to hurt...

Antoine

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That's what I keep reading on all those help/advice articles online how Anal sex shouldn't hurt (don't judge me! lol) and if it hurts the guy is not doing it right blablabla...


Everytime that I've tried it, it hurt like hell. I'm pretty tight and I'm at a point where I'm actually scared to have anal sex with guys (especially just for sex) because the guy's concern won't be to "do it right & not hurt me" but rather to just stick it in and get it over with..


What do I do? Any advice? I can only go so long without actual full-on sex!
 
^There is a health forum on this site which addresses your question with sufficient advice to satisfy an inquiring mind.
 
Antoine said:
...where I'm actually scared to have anal sex with guys (especially just for sex) because the guy's concern won't be to "do it right & not hurt me" but rather to just stick it in and get it over with...
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If that's the sort of guy you'd let do it, you might want to wait until after you've done extensive "personal training" alone.
 
its all about the kind of guy you are whit, but like everyone says , you should try to do some things yourself, plus there are some guys that are just not into anal sex and you may find you are one of them.
 
Relax, relax, RELAX. If you are thinking about the pain the whole time, you tighten yourself up. You have to calm down and not focus. After that, it should feel good. However, you should try a small Dildo to start off with. Then you are in control of it.
 
Most penises are much bigger and harder than poo, therefore it hurts. :)
 
It's never hurt for the guys I've topped, and no, I don't have a "very small dick". :). I just take my time putting the bottom at ease, getting him into it, and opening him up. Once it took something like half an hour to get him open. I didn't mind - hell, I got to make out with him and play with his ass for half an hour. :)

I completely don't understand the dichotomy of "anal has always hurt like hell" and "guys just want to stick it in and get it over with" paired with "I can only go so long without actual sex". If you haven't enjoyed bottoming, either top or stick with oral. Oral sex IS still sex. If you really enjoy bottoming (despite that it "always hurts like hell"?), work on being able to open yourself up quicker, or find yourself some better partners.

Lex
 
get yourself a Dildo or vibrator and use that on your ass everytime you jackoff. It will loosen it up a little bit over time and then when you know you are gonna have anal sex, lube up the Dildo and use it for 5 minutes or so first , so when he enters you, it slips right in with no pain. thats what I do and never had any problems or pain.
 
Anal sex is not painful IF YOU DON'T DO IT! Go and buy a playstation
 
And so we have the "no one is 100% straight" guy who can't go long withough "actual full-on sex" saying he can't bottom without intense pain? Something isn't adding up somewhere...

Lex
 
Wait.

Haven't we dealt with this guy before?

That picture is mockingly familiar...
 
g-lexington said:
it's never hurt for the guys i've topped, and no, i don't have a "very small dick". :). I just take my time putting the bottom at ease, getting him into it, and opening him up. Once it took something like half an hour to get him open. I didn't mind - hell, i got to make out with him and play with his ass for half an hour. :)

i completely don't understand the dichotomy of "anal has always hurt like hell" and "guys just want to stick it in and get it over with" paired with "i can only go so long without actual sex". If you haven't enjoyed bottoming, either top or stick with oral. Oral sex is still sex. If you really enjoy bottoming (despite that it "always hurts like hell"?), work on being able to open yourself up quicker, or find yourself some better partners.

Lex
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OMG........We should hook up ;)

When are you coming back to California again? :lol:

j/k
 
If it hurts I think it's both parties,

the top is to ruff/in a hurry to plow it in, to big, not as experiance, or does not care.

Bottom is to tensed up/not relaxed, afraid, nervous


(to me) any combo of that will make for pain...
 
Always hurts for me, I have a mental block where I just can't let myself relax enough. Practice never helped so I just gave up in the end which is a bit annoying because in my head, i'm a bottom.
 
Antoine said:
That's what I keep reading on all those help/advice articles online how Anal sex shouldn't hurt (don't judge me! lol) and if it hurts the guy is not doing it right blablabla...


Everytime that I've tried it, it hurt like hell. I'm pretty tight and I'm at a point where I'm actually scared to have anal sex with guys (especially just for sex) because the guy's concern won't be to "do it right & not hurt me" but rather to just stick it in and get it over with..


What do I do? Any advice? I can only go so long without actual full-on sex!
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If it hurts don't do it.
Your ass is allergic to cock.
 
G-Lexington said:
And so we have the "no one is 100% straight" guy who can't go long withough "actual full-on sex" saying he can't bottom without intense pain? Something isn't adding up somewhere...

Lex
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lol I'm not sure how you connected the two... but if you think the no one is 100% straight thread is because I have a lot of sex with different "straight" guys then you must be mistaken... It's simply based on observation over the years either from my own or my friends' sexual experiences.

Btw, nice advice you put up there :)
 
Britguy said:
Anal sex is not painful IF YOU DON'T DO IT! Go and buy a playstation
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That's what I've been doing for the past year actually :P but I'm fed up and Bioshock won't come out until fall sooooo gotta keep busy until then :P
 
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