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So came out last night to my best friend

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Def was not planning on it...we were coming home from being out at a bar...we stopped at McD's for a bite to eat and as we were driving away, my head started drifting thinknig about these guys that were at the bar and blah blah blah....well i hit a curb and got a flat tire..so we were luckily right down the street from my old work so i made it to the parking lot....and I was just so pissed off that while she was on the phone with AAA i got out of the car and just kinda stood at the end of the car...well she talks me into getting back into the car and I just start balling i couldn't help it...cause I was upset that we ended the night like this...and i knew that i didn't hit the curb cause i was drunk but because I was concentrating on something else and I felt really bad so she kept on asking me what was wrong cause i obviously couldn't hide the fact that something was on my mind as i'm sobbing into my stairing wheel haha...well I finally blurt it out that i'm bisexual and she's like...that's ok it doesn't matter who you like there's no need to be upset about this and she thanked me for letting her be the first person i told and it was good....we talked a lot last night about tons of stuff she told me a secret that no one knows about her...she's definitly my best friend in this entire world and I don't know what I'd do without her! But yeah about the tire( AAA didn't show up for like 2 and a half hours) we get back to her apartment...park...end up getting a 75 dollar ticket this morning..lol...but at least one good thing happened!

Just thought I would share this...cause this forum has def helped me out!
 
Congratulations mate... thats fantastic! Be proud of yourself mate...your courage will be an inspiration to others.

Its the start of people knowing the real you...and its always amazing when your friends become even closer after you tell them. Its like a new deeper bond forms because of the honsesty and trust...it gives you just that little bit more confidence to live the rest of your life that way too...

And thanks for sharing your story Bostonboy20...just sorry your experince cost you so many $$$$$. I'm glad your coming out went so well for you though!
 
Well done, it is a great first step, and I hope everyone else is as supportive. From my experience life outside the closet, is alot nicer and more relaxed. Good Luck.

As a side note, go and buy a spare tire for the car, and then you can fix it yourself, its not expensive, if its an old car you can always go to a scrap yard and look for a spare tire, jack etc, it will save you next time.
 
Congratulations Bostonboy! You're not alone any more. Now this wonderful friend of yours knows and can listen to you in the future.

I too am sorry about the ticket but it seems that it was money well spent! ;)
 
As above well done mate. It's a great feeling isn't it? It will also get easier in the future helped by the fact that you friend acted as a true friend should. (*8*)
 
That's fantastic! Good for you and good for her! Give her a hug!
 
thanks everyone!

and about the spare tire...i do have one...and i was gonna change it myself...but it was dark and i was drunk...so it probably wouldn't have gone so smoothly..haha...though thankfully the tire isn't flat...the rim just got bent...so i think the reason we thought it was flat when we were driving was because the tire got like knocked off the axle...so hopefully it's fixable=) haha
 
^yeah really.

As touching a story as that is, I'm surprised everyone glossed over the fact that there was drinking + driving. Would've been a lot more touching if that curb had been a pedestrian.
 
amyleeisjesus said:
^yeah really.

As touching a story as that is, I'm surprised everyone glossed over the fact that there was drinking + driving. Would've been a lot more touching if that curb had been a pedestrian.
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You're absolutely right. I missed that somehow.

You're way over the drinking limit if you are hitting curbs and bending rims, Bostonboy. The next time it could be your life or someone else's.
 
oh i know i know....but i know my limits....i knew i was driving home...i stopped drinking about an hour before we left the bar...had water...the hitting of the curb had nothing to do with me having been drinking...i know this...but shit now i seem like a dumbass....i know no one will believe that...but it's the truth...i mean i've hit curbs when i was stone cold sober...sometimes you just get to close to the side. Ok i'm gonna stop talking now.
 
Bostonboy ... PLEASE be careful! If you're ever in doubt please let a designated driver or a cab drive you home. Even the smallest buzz is enough to impair you into making the slightest yet most horrible mistake. What might be a buzz when you get into the car could develop later into deeper intoxication as more alcohol diffuses into your blood while you are driving.

That said, I just wanted to congratulate you on your coming out to your friend. It's a difficult thing to do and now you're reaping the rewards. I hope to do that soon ... I know, I keep saying that but it's hard to get to the phone and make the call (since they both live far away from me). I'm trying to force myself to do it tonight with 1 of the 2 friends with whom I want to share.

I thought it was a little "interesting" how this coming out just came out of nowhere the way you described it ... is it just me that thought that? Sorry to hear that the circumstances surrounding it cost you some money, but perhaps the blow is less painful knowing you let something off your chest. Maybe everything was supposed to happen this way?
 
yeah no...the day after i was gonna kinda apologize to her just because it really did just come out of nowhere...i really don't know why it happened...cause as far as she knew i was just pissed about the tire...haha

hopefully it works out for you tonight though!

and i'll be more careful in the future...thank you all for the concern
 
no kidding...it was freezing! thank god i thought ahead and had brought my scarf and gloves and i had an extra winter coat in the trunk that my friend used
 
Soldiers Field Rd....i used to work there so luckily i was like a few buildings down from my old building and was able to just pull into the parking lot to wait.
 
oh most definitly...but luckily it was also like 2:30 in the morning so there weren't that many cars coming down there!
 
haha thanks....but the wind tunnel doesn't sound any better...haha...I was at Avalon (for Scissor Sisters/OkGo show) and then headed to the after party at District...luckily i got parking pretty damn close to there so it wasn't a long walk outside!
 
don't you feel SOO much better for having done it, bostonboy? you are coming out into the sun. be proud of yourself. as you go forward, you'll definitely feel as stated above that the flat and the ticket were indeed money well spent for all the benefits you now have. you can finally be the GREAT you that you are.
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