If it would have been 3 years ago I would have never thought about telling sumone that I have same sex feelings for them but as time goes on I start getting more comfortable with the idea.
Im so close to telling my friend I have strong feeling for him and I really want to.
I fill u in on sum background,im a 20 year old bi male,Ive never told anyone I was bi,I talked to another friend about being bi once,I told him I could be bi and I think I really am and ofcourse he kept telling me Im not and I could have any girl I want. So I really think If I told my friends I was bi theyd say I'm just over reacting because Im still a virgin and feeling discouraged.Like I would love to tell everyone Im bi but ofcourse Im so worried they will be upset and weird around me.
Just recently on my myspace for my sexual orentation as NOT SURE,so maybe people will read that.
So about this friend. I have known him since July,The first moment I saw him I devolped feelings for him.Hes so beautiful.anyways,Im not a shy person at all so I started talking to him and everything and just being myself,so I get home and he already had put me in his friends on myspace.I thought that was crazy and started to think that he thinks Im cool.
So we talked to each other alot on myspace and everytime I would post a funny video,survey or sumthing HE'D post the same exact thing,which was more then twice. eventually he got my screen name and we started talking,We talk for HOURS at a time most of the time.When we talk we always end up saying homosexual things like I'll smack ur ass,I cant wait till u sleep over and we can dry hump,funny shit like that,only half the time I mean what I say and sumtimes I think he means it too,I really think he could be bi or bi curious,I dont think hes gay.
So one night while we were out walking I got injured and had to go to the hospital and he was right by my side the whole time and he was so upset that happend to me and he was so worried.So once I got home we layed down in my bed and watched tv and I dunno what come over me but I would kiss him on the cheeck every few mins and he never said stop or dude are u gay? Im pretty sure he liked it. Then later I made food and said if u want sum u gotta give me a kiss so he kissed me on the cheeck.
Im pretty sure if I told him I liked him he wouldnt freak out but Im so worried theres a chance he would freak out but I just cant keep it inside of me anymore,I really love this kid and I just wanna be with him,Ive never been in love or had any sexual contact with another person and I would really like to be with him. If I told him over the internet I could prob say everything on my mind but I kinda wanna tell him face to face but I'll be so nervious and scared.
So my question is what should I do? How should I bring it up? Should I even say anything? Do u think he could have the same feelings back for me?
Sorry aboyt my spelling,I suck at it. And Im greatful for any help. So thank u in advance.
I've worked for the past 14 years at the same place and not once had I ever met anyone I was even interested in, I'm very particular. Then bam, the man of my dreams was hired about two years ago. Not married, never been married and not taken. WOW!!! So for the next year, we had become very good friends. I wasn't all that interested in him at first since I thought he was just friendly, but I had thought if he might have been bi. A year ago this past Christmas, he invited me down to his dad's home for Christmas and we went out on New Year's night. That does make one think. Then we were able to on several road trips and we got to know each other quite a bit and we've gone out several times. One of those times, I kissed him on the forehead and told him I loved him. I was telling Bret about my trips to New York and he stated he had never been and I asked him if he would like to go. We went.
Even though sex would have been nice, it didn't happen. But something more did. I just had to let Bret know how I felt, just like you wanting to tell your friend how you feel towards him. I told him that he was either naive or stupid or both, but I was honest with him and I explained to him that it was best he knows now instead of later. Bret neither deny he was bi but he never claimed that he was, he only indicated that he was not ready for a relationship yet.
Tallguy is absolutely right, friendships are all about honesty and trust. If you can trust a person with the way you feel, then everything else is easy, you have nothing else to hide. Too bad we didn't have a nice Summer with that bitch that was trying to move in on him, but he got rid of her. That is another story on another thread.