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So embarrassed!

AndrewH said:
Should I apologise for any embarrassment I caused him?

Thanks for all the support.
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Nah, I won't. Changes are he's already forgotten about it. Just let it be. Besides, what embarrassment did you cause him? He got asked out to coffee by a guy. If his pride is wounded, it's not your fault. People get hit on all the time in real life. (well except for me...still waiting :) )
 
Thanks alot Soilwork! :p You know I was working on a perfect goose egg and now you gone and spoiled it by asking me out for coffee....shame on you! :p :D

Sure, I love some coffee....er actually I don't drink coffee...can't stand it. But we can do the Tim Hortons thing and I'll get some Earl Grey Tea! :D

The Doctor: Tea! That's all I needed! Good cup of tea! Super-heated infusion of free-radicals and tannin, just the thing for healing the synapses...
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- Doctor Who, The Christmas Invasion
 
AndrewH said:
There's a really cute cashier at Safeway I'm attracted to. I always make it a point to go to his register and even make up excuses to go buy something just so I can see his adorable face.

Couple weeks ago I complimented him on his shirt and tie, saying it looked good on him (everyone else has those brown company shirts).

Tonight I finally got up the nerve to ask if he'd ever want to go grab a cup of coffee or something sometime. (This is so uncharacteristic of me). His response? "No."

I am so embarrassed.
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Damn good for you man.
No need to be embarrassed.... Happens to guys asking girls out all the time, and happens time to time with gay guys too.
What you did is something I've never had the balls to do, except of course in a gay bar...
You won't ever get a 'yes' if you don't ask man..... and you asked. Good for you.

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AndrewH said:
Should I apologise for any embarrassment I caused him?

Thanks for all the support.
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Heck no!

The few times I've been asked out (By straight women no less! Imagine my shame... ;) ) I did feel good that someone thought well enough of me to take that chance.

I say just let it lie. :)
 
I would continue using his line, but I wouldn't apologize or mention it again. You've put the bug in his ear, so to speak. Let him ponder on it for awhile. Who knows... maybe one day he'll be curious enough to ask you to join him for coffee...
 
well thats ballsy of you... i'm impressed...

now if u want really embarrassing.. 3 years ago i was in a big crowded mall and i felt a draft on my crotch.. i looked down and my fly was down.. and my dick was hanging out for all to see because it had popped out of my boxers...

now thats embarrassing
 
puka-pride said:
well thats ballsy of you... i'm impressed...

now if u want really embarrassing.. 3 years ago i was in a big crowded mall and i felt a draft on my crotch.. i looked down and my fly was down.. and my dick was hanging out for all to see because it had popped out of my boxers...

now thats embarrassing
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No, that's hot! =]
 
Woof! Huge on you dude! If he were gay, it would have been a definite yes. Too bad most of them play for the other team.
 
At least you asked. And at least he told you one way or the other, so now you know.

Don't feel embarrassed, the rest of us are just sitting around too afraid to take the initiative.
 
MattieMich said:
1) Did you think the cashier was gay? What made you think so?

2) Is he flirty?

3) Do you think you'll do something like this again?
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1. I wasn't sure if he was gay or not.

2. He always gives me a really big smile when he sees me standing in his line. I've watched him with other customers and he'll usually give them a small grin or nod of acknowledgement.

3. Maybe.

I see tons of guys at stores and at the gym that I think are cute, hot, handsome, do-able, etc. When I see this guy though, my heart starts pounding and I can't keep a big goofy grin off my face. !oops!

Puka, I'd have died. :p
 
Like others have said, behave normally.

Don't turn into a stalker but don't avoid him either.

Sometimes people say "No" as a knee-jerk response when they're feeling awkward.

Or it could be that he is not interested.

So keep it real.

But good on you for speaking!
 
Andrew, congrats on your nerve. Couple of questions though. How old is this dewd? He might be somewhat shy. Were there people right behind you in line? Did he blush when he said no? Was it a crisp "no"..Did he say "no, thanks"? Do NOT do the lube/condom thing. PLEASE. I kinda like the Chase & Sanborn thing. But dont say anything! Make sure it is your only purchase. Find out when he is working and it is slow. He might have been nervous with his fellow employees around or customers behind you. Be snappy. He: "Oh, just coffeetoday?" You: "Yes, I guess I gotta drink in today (or tonite)" He's not stupid. May give him an opening to revisit the issue, ok?
 
I'd place him somewhere in his early to mid 20s maybe. He might be like me though and just look younger than he is.

There were no customers in line behind me, I definately wouldn't have asked if there were. He said no and shook his head.

The coffee idea is good. :)
 
Awesome. It could have been a bad time for such a question for whatever unknown reason so ask him again later maybe. Perhaps he has reconsidered...unless his response was unequivocal.
 
puka-pride said:
well thats ballsy of you... i'm impressed...

now if u want really embarrassing.. 3 years ago i was in a big crowded mall and i felt a draft on my crotch.. i looked down and my fly was down.. and my dick was hanging out for all to see because it had popped out of my boxers...

now thats embarrassing
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Holy shit puka, I would have DIED! Although, it does make for a good ice-breaker in a conversation. "So I was walking through a mall with my cock hanging out..." LoL
 
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