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So Fustrted!! Need to let it all out

Orlandude

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That girl is not your friend if she needs to use things told to her in confidence for blackmail. I wouldn't trust her again either. Saying what she said in front of others was rude, ill-mannered and tacky....not to mention, none of her business. That speaks volumes about her character. You don't need people like her as friends.

If you won't go to a bar alone and find the internet not helpful in meeting guys, have you looked into any gay social things or events around you that might be going on? That can be a good place to meet others without the bar pressure and the uncertainty of meeting on line. Gay Days festivities will soon begin. Perhaps there are Gay Days events near you or not far away. Just a thought.
 
I know how you feel in a lot of ways. I did the same thing, just accepting it earlier. I also had a friend who hurt me after she found out. She started treating me bad after I told her, including making me a third wheel at junior prom by asking me to go with her because neither of us had dates, then bringing some guy as her date.

It may be easier if you made her mad and she told everyone, but that may turn bad for you. It may be better for you to tell people yourself instead of being outed by her.

As for wanting what other people your age have, I know the feeling. I'll be nineteen in a little over a month. I've never dated anyone because the people that liked me where people I didn't like, and the only guy I liked who was gay didn't come out until after hurting me. I'd love a bf to cuddle, kiss, etc. but I've had no luck in that area. You just have to keep trying I guess...thats what I do. I can't bring myself to go to a gay club alone either.
 
Hi! I'm a guy with 19 y-o, and i think you shouldn´t be friend of her, and if she threaten by her, and if she blackmail to you, you go and tell to her friends what she told you about them...

In the other hand, It's happening to me, I wanna hang out with guys and this, but I live in a small town and everybody know everybody...:(

If you wanna alk or soething, in my profile it's my MSN, Seeyou:D
 
I agree with everyone else. The second girl is a loser and you shouldn't waste time worrying about her. Keep the secrets she told you and take the proverbial high road.

Your young and should be able to find some other young gay/bi curious guys. Especially if your in college. Plus you have your other friend that is bi. Why can't you go to the gay club with her? She should be able to give you some support and help in this situation.

Keep us updated and YOUR NOT BORING US!! Sometimes we need to vent. ..|
 
I should have mentioned that if you want to talk, you can send me an IM any time i'm online. I have AIM, Yahoo anad MSN on my profile.
 
definetely distance yourself from her. that is wrong...what she tried to do, and especially in front of a class. you know they are all buggin her about the "secret" now. and unfortunately, she may have already told one or more people by now, all under the umbrella of "you cant tell anyone else...ok?"
 
The same thing happened to me today, a friend betrayed my trust in him. It doesnt compare to you story though, that is downright embarrassing and hurtful what that girl did to u.
I gave my friend a book that i wasnt suppose to have to look over, and he decided to look over it in class, when i told him specifically not to. I was angry as everyone could see that i had the book. He probably did it to piss me off. It showed me something that i have never notice in him and now i know i have to be careful.
 
If anyone says anything to you, tell them she is a pathological liar and makes up all kinds of shit--including all that stuff about her own sex life.
 
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