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So - here's MY straight friend situation

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I agree with vamagnifique. Taking advantage of a "drunkened" situation would be a betrayal of his friendship with and trust in you. Ask him when he's sober...his reaction and answer should be his true feelings. If his answer is yes, that's really sweet because it wasn't forced ;)
 
You will need to let him know about yourself and your sexuality at some time. If you value your friendship and want to make it meaningful, it's important that there is nothing hidden. If you have been able to sleep in the same bed and keep your hands to yourself, he will know that you are not predatory. Tell him how much you value your friendship together, and that you are gay and hope it does not make a difference. If it does, he was not a true friend anyhow. Take things from there. Don't hit on him. Best of luck.
 
If you were to try something some drunk night:

Wrestle. Whatever he's OK with, do a little bit more. If you go a little to far, laught it off and then do it again. If that's really too much, back off. If it's not, you'll see how far you can go.

Lots of straight guys fool around when they're drunk. [joke]It's not a betrayal of your friendship unless you fuck him up the ass while he's passed out.[/joke] Traveling is a great time with it because there's sort of an "away from home" psychology.

Putting in porn helps, too. See if you can't accidentally run across it on the hotel PPV.

If your gay jokes have been pretty graphic of late, just keep pushing the line a little further until you cross it. All friends get a couple drunk passes, where if you say too much and both of you or a little drunk you can just forget about it. Who knows though, maybe he won't stop you? Just be ready to back off and give him room.
 
CGHJ said:
Putting in porn helps, too. See if you can't accidentally run across it on the hotel PPV.
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I totall agree. Straight guys have been known to jack off together, so why not start there? Even if you don't touch each other, it's still fucking hot and who knows, jacking off together could lead to "Have you ever tried...? Would you like to...?"
 
My suggestion would be simply to walk up behind him while he's on the Stairmaster and plow him in the ass. If he enjoys it, great - you have the answer you wanted.

If, on the other hand, he beats you into a bloody pulp with the nearest barbell, perhaps it's time to stop trying to seduce him.
 
I have been through the same thing when i was 15. It started with me and my mate just experementing, but soon it got out of control and we both started doing it all the time. mostly just blow jobs and stuff, i enjoyed it and so did he even though at the time i had a girlfreind. One day we were fooling around and my sister looked through the keyhola and saw us tossing each other off. She kept it a secret for ages until she blurted it out in an argument. m whole life came crashing down as i had to explain to my mum everything. She completly understood and was really supportive and she belived me when i said i was'nt gay it was just experementing.
We dont speak that much anymore and i dropped out of school early because our secret leaked out somehow. My point is, doing it with a mate can have huge consecuences and can really make you wish you were someone else. At the end of the day, your happiness is the most important thing.
 
do you have a picture of this guy? im wondering cuz im going through almost the same thing
 
If you'd like it to last more then a night I'd suggest just being honest. Period.
 
EyeSeer said:
Pretty typical situation I'm about to share. I'm not super desperate for this guy, I just like to let way for my fantasies from time to time.

Friends since highschool- we ever really were close buddies until college, when we would come back home and hang out with all the other college bound friends. He's very good looking and really into working out. Oh and straight of course ;). He could get a lot of girls purely on his looks.

Everytime we go back home for thanksgiving/winter break/etc. it feels we've bonded as friends more and more. He doesn't know that I'm gay and that I'd suck him off in a heartbeat.

We've even slept in the same bed, but I suppose lots of buddies do that. I think it's more of an example that he's comfortable with knowing that he's straight and he is sure I am, or at the very least I wouldn't try to cross any boundaries. As of recent though, our gay jokes on eachother have been pretty graphic.

I'm not specifically asking how to get my friend in bed (because I've already have technically), BUT if I were to try something one drunkened night, what would you guys suggest? In my mind we'd have to be really hammered for me to try something. I have more to say but your guys comments first.
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For the greater good of you, your friend and everyone else, I suggest you keep your fantasies just that.......FANTASIES.

I have never figured out what has gone into gay guys to want to experiment with their heterosexual friends. Why can't you just be a friend to him as you have been in the past? It's as if you are trying to challenge his sexuality based upon random jokes. If someone were to do that to me, I'd flip out.

Not only should you not try to do anything with him under the influene of any alcoholic substance, but you shouldn't even be THINKING about having sex with a guy who has clearly stated that he is heterosexual. Unless you feel he has lied to you or there is a past of him you know about, then "trying" anything is a very bad idea.

You have more to lose than gain.
 
Newbie....

Yeah, it is true that straight boys will do gay things when they are really horny and too immature (shy) to form a relationship with a girl. High school kids.

When I was in high school, my friend hit on me. We were at the lake with his family, and in the same big bed getting ready to go to sleep. The lights were on. I was laying in bed, in my underwear, no covers. He was the same. All of sudden, he just pulled the top of my underwear down to expose my cock. I was semierect. He made some comment, oh or something, and then proceeded to suck my cock. Since this was the first time he had done anything like this (the most he ever did was wrestle with me), and I was totally inexperienced (I had never masturbated and was not sexually minded), I tried to push his head away. He continued to suck, and it felt so good that I relented after only a few seconds of trying to push his head away. He ended up jacking me off before I came in his mouth. I then sucked him off. He seemed experienced, my hunch is that before I moved to his hometown, he may have been exposed to a similar relationship with someone else sucking him the first time.

I am 99% sure he is straight, he had girlfriends and was not into kissing, fucking, etc.

We continued to suck each other off for a year or two after school everyday. He had 3 sisters but they never knew what was going on in his room.

One word of caution for the younger crowd, although this story is true, i read a bunch similar to this, and I do not want to give anyone the idea that you can just pull down a guys underwear and start sucking and he will let you. If the guy punched you in the face, ran out of your house, and then told the entire high school what happened, would it be worth the risk?????? Don't think all of these "fantasies" people write about are really possible. be careful, be very careful. Let the other guy make the first move.
 
luvthissite said:
One word of caution for the younger crowd, although this story is true, i read a bunch similar to this, and I do not want to give anyone the idea that you can just pull down a guys underwear and start sucking and he will let you. If the guy punched you in the face, ran out of your house, and then told the entire high school what happened, would it be worth the risk?????? Don't think all of these "fantasies" people write about are really possible. be careful, be very careful. Let the other guy make the first move.
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Solid advice. ..| I know that not ALL of these stories are false. I've fallen victum a couple of times to lust after a guy that I could have faced either legal ramifications or personal attack. We need to be very careful when it comes to being the agressor and should take your advice to heart. Oh and by the way...welcome to JUB. (*8*)
 
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