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So hot, so shy
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GreatZeus
Le coeur a ses raisons
My thought is that gay and cute are hardly a winning combination all alone. I have no idea what it means to be too "hot to go to the dark side". But what is that you want? Hot sex for a one night? A long term relationship? In either case, you at the age of 30 need to be mindful of what is like to be 19. He could be a most mature 19. Or he could be very much a kid. If he is very much a kid, I would keep my distance. Why? Because if he is more like a kid, then you are rather like an old man at the age of 30. And it is easy for him to think that you are just out to take advantage of him.
If he is a mature 19 year old, then there is hope. But you have to stop acting like a child. At the age of 30, you ought to be able to engage in a meaningful conversation with a 19 year old. And if that is a problem for you, then you are not ready for the relationship. Invite him out for a coffee or a soda or quick snack. His response will give you a good indication of his level of maturity. And if that is too much for you, then you are definitely not ready for the relationship.
If he is a mature 19 year old, then there is hope. But you have to stop acting like a child. At the age of 30, you ought to be able to engage in a meaningful conversation with a 19 year old. And if that is a problem for you, then you are not ready for the relationship. Invite him out for a coffee or a soda or quick snack. His response will give you a good indication of his level of maturity. And if that is too much for you, then you are definitely not ready for the relationship.
SilverRRCloud
I'd rather be a Sexgod:)
Sex favors the bold.
You must have heard that one b4.
So, if you have not got the guts, rest assured, someone else will fill in just nicely.
Do not go into any overdrive by involving the life-planning component. Do not think and talk a LTR before you get to know the dude.
Keep in mind that it takes two to tango and even you really do not know much about the guy.
So, get your shit together. Ask him for out for drinks and snaks or whatever and make friends to start with... Take it one step at a time.
Just my 2 cents...
SC
You must have heard that one b4.
So, if you have not got the guts, rest assured, someone else will fill in just nicely.
Do not go into any overdrive by involving the life-planning component. Do not think and talk a LTR before you get to know the dude.
Keep in mind that it takes two to tango and even you really do not know much about the guy.
So, get your shit together. Ask him for out for drinks and snaks or whatever and make friends to start with... Take it one step at a time.
Just my 2 cents...
SC
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teh_nathan
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Well..I probably would have a hard time saying anything myself.
well you have to talk to him maybe you see if you could get in a group with him something to do with study and be his friend
i had a cute nice guy in one of my classes its alot easier to talk to them if you are talking to them about what youre studying and get to know him better through that and find out if their straight. we have practicals so its easier to get together with the person but i dont knw what you have
i had a cute nice guy in one of my classes its alot easier to talk to them if you are talking to them about what youre studying and get to know him better through that and find out if their straight. we have practicals so its easier to get together with the person but i dont knw what you have
seven_sins
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When I was 19, I considered anyone 30 to be "old." I would play it safe and not let him know that you are turned on by him. That doesn't mean you can't be friends. If he makes eye contact with you, say "hello" to him and smile. Unless you are taking classes together, I would not let it go much further than that unless he initiates a conversation. If you are taking the same classes, you could always discuss the assignments and maybe become friends that way.
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teh_nathan
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The term "old" is rather insulting, it's ageist and discriminatory. People should think twice before they make such comments.
How would you like it if someone discriminated against you because of what you look like, what you sound like, your eye colour, your age, etc (do you like homophobic people? of course not)? Discrimination is just plain wrong and life is just too short to be pulling that BS.
Personally, I prefer guys who are younger but I wouldn't totally exclude anyone who's older, you never know what you could miss (now I'd draw the line somewhere, of course, but again, I'm always open to exceptions - there's an exception to every rule).
How would you like it if someone discriminated against you because of what you look like, what you sound like, your eye colour, your age, etc (do you like homophobic people? of course not)? Discrimination is just plain wrong and life is just too short to be pulling that BS.
Personally, I prefer guys who are younger but I wouldn't totally exclude anyone who's older, you never know what you could miss (now I'd draw the line somewhere, of course, but again, I'm always open to exceptions - there's an exception to every rule).
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teh_nathan
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No, it's not. 90% of my friends are younger, I can relate to younger guys. That's not to say I choose to exclusively have anything to do with younger guys. That's not to say I choose to exclusively have anything to do with younger guys. If you think that, you're way off and you're just drawing conclusions that aren't there and making assumptions.
What I said:
"To age discriminate isn't fair, it's ageist. Personally, I'm into younger guys."
What I did not say:
"To age discriminate isn't fair, it's ageist. Personally, I'm into younger guys, so I'm a hypocrite."
The difference between me and someone who's ageist would be to say "I'm into younger guys only and nobody else has a chance" which is completely false. If an older guy expressed an interest in me, I wouldn't refuse him (if I liked him).
If you aren't sure of something I said, please ask me and I'll be happy to clarify. Don't make assumptions. You know what happens when you assume, right?
Look, I'm sick and tired of having to explain every little thing I say because someone keeps assuming things that aren't there or twists it his/her own way. I've had to deal with that crap in various places on and off the net for the past few months and it's starting to get really grating on the nerves. When I say something, that's what I mean. I have no hidden meanings because I don't talk that way. What you see is what you get.
Go ahead and think I'm a hypocrite (and all sorts of negative things) if it'll make you feel better, however that's not what I said or meant.
What I said:
"To age discriminate isn't fair, it's ageist. Personally, I'm into younger guys."
What I did not say:
"To age discriminate isn't fair, it's ageist. Personally, I'm into younger guys, so I'm a hypocrite."
The difference between me and someone who's ageist would be to say "I'm into younger guys only and nobody else has a chance" which is completely false. If an older guy expressed an interest in me, I wouldn't refuse him (if I liked him).
If you aren't sure of something I said, please ask me and I'll be happy to clarify. Don't make assumptions. You know what happens when you assume, right?
Look, I'm sick and tired of having to explain every little thing I say because someone keeps assuming things that aren't there or twists it his/her own way. I've had to deal with that crap in various places on and off the net for the past few months and it's starting to get really grating on the nerves. When I say something, that's what I mean. I have no hidden meanings because I don't talk that way. What you see is what you get.
Go ahead and think I'm a hypocrite (and all sorts of negative things) if it'll make you feel better, however that's not what I said or meant.
Sounds pretty ageist to me.
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teh_nathan
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(There was something here but I deleted it..can't delete the comment though 
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