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So I Came Out

Hey everyone it's been a while mostly lurking around the site and hanging with some friends irl. So my friend and I talked for the first time in a week and a half and it felt good. Mostly I said how I felt that, although as awkward as it is now, we'll be back to normal with time he said he felt the same way. He's okay with me being gay and was sorry for avoiding me all this time but that he needed some time to take it all in. I told him that I thought a lot too and that our friendship will be back to normal. It was bittersweet though because he says that he's going back to Germany earlier than planned but that he felt that he couldn't leave me without a resolution. After a little talking and joking he had to go and pack and I thanked him for calling me before he left, he said he'd called me next week while in Germany. So for the most part we're on our way to being back to normal he told me if I ever feel the need to talk to him or if we're not talking enough to give him a call:)

A special thanks goes to catee222 for messaging me and giving me things to think about while I was going through this and I hope things work out for you:goodluck

Another thanks goes out to LostVegas and his amazing thread I really got inspired and it helped me have a new perspective on things thank you so much..|

And lastly all of you guys that gave me advice thank you all so very much. It really helped to know that I had an entire community that would guide me through all this trust me it would have been so much harder knowing I was all alone.

Sorry for being so mushy but this whole experience has really made me grow up a bit in a short amount of time. Love you all(*8*):kiss:

-Gus

P.S. After my friend left I called another bud of mine and told him he's cool about it that only leaves one friend tonight and I'm sure he'll be cool too after that all my (close) friends will know!:gogirl:
 
ThatGuyGus...Im so proud of you...and very happy that you took this big step and in the end all is pretty much well...proud of your bravery, and honesty and newfound confidence...here is best wishes to a great 2010!
 
Thanks LV that means a lot btw I'm out to all my friends now:-) it feels good and I know I'm lucky to have such good friends both irl and here and we're going out to "celebrate" my coming out(!w!) but they look for any excuse to get booze:rolleyes: Happy holidays to everyone:santa::menorah:(UU)
 
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