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So...I Came Out.

The White Stripe

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Two night ago I finally came out to two of my best friends. Two people I could trust with my life, and two people I know would never judge me. I had been wanting to tell them for a very long time, but I could never muster the courage to actually utter the words in front of them. I was finally able to March 19th, and I feel so wonderful. I don't feel different, but its just nice to be able to talk about it with someone if I need to. I'm glad I was able to do it on my own time. I feel lucky that I had plenty of time to figure everything out. I finally feel comfortable in my own skin, and I'm glad I finally realized I would never be able to find just one gender desirable. My sexuality has been a huge cause of frustration for years, and slowly but surely I began to worry about it less and less. Being able to tell someone about it has eased the stress all the more. I don't think I will ever be completely out while I live where I do (and with my family), but taking the first step has helped a lot.

Don't come out to someone until you're ready, but when you do...you will feel a huge weight off your shoulders. Baby steps. :)
 
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That's the only way to do it, one gay at a time. To me it felt like the more people that know, the better I felt, or at least I didn't spend time worrying about if someone was gonna ask me or watching what I said. Congrats!
 
The more you let it be known, and no longer feel the need to hide your True self, the lighter that weight will be, and the more you'll realize you can Relax, and just be YOU! (!) (!w!)

NOTHING is more Fulfilling than the Freedom to be YOU!! (group)

And, the "Funny" thing about it all? It's not nearly as difficult as all of us thought that it would be! #-o ..|

All the more reasons to ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin', "Stripey"! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz :luv2:
 
congratulations from a fellow closet dweller. enjoy. one day, i will join you on the outside because it's getting really lonely in the closet. :( not taking away from your moment. congratulations.
 
refujiunderground said:
congratulations from a fellow closet dweller. enjoy. one day, i will join you on the outside because it's getting really lonely in the closet. :( not taking away from your moment. congratulations.
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Well if you ever feel lonely...there is always someone to talk to. I remember feeling down for a log time, about stuff. Luckily I had a friend on here I could talk to. I miss Elvin :(
 
I view coming out as being a lot like getting your driver's license. It opens you up to much freedom, and after a while it becomes hard to remember back to a time before you had it.

Congrats man!
 
Hey congratulations. I did the whole thing in September 2011, so it's pretty new for me too.

Getting there, all of us, bit by bit!

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