So I Got This PM...

[Comrad]

Ohh shit this sounds like one of those scary ass Japanese movies n shit. Iunno, i say you like, answer it and if your cell phone rings DON'T answer it.... If your dead in 7 days then we will know.

 

[Alpha1851]

What's really fun is when I get them.

I always wonder if I should write back and pretend to be a gay man

Same here. Except I always tell them I'm a chick...mainly b/c I want them to stop. Why aren't people more afraid of contacting people they don't know? Stranger danger!

Here's a little tip for you fellas, if you want to get offers for IMing, pic sharing, hook ups, or cam to cam adventures, change your oreintation to straight and your status to dating. It seems to get me a lot of offers.

 

[Kurn]

I just logged on and got a PM from a JUBber I don't know. The message was short: "You interested in playing?" I checked out the profile, he just started today and made no posts so far. It does say he's single. I can also assume that he's lives in the Phoenix area as well. Besides that, pretty much know nothing about him.

I don't get those kinds of guys, why would they expect a response?

If you have the energy you might just tell him exactly what you think of e-mails like that and I mean in a nice way.
There's so much unnecessary hostility in life these days.
Tell him to learn to express himself. Tell him to be honest with people.
But that doesn't mean let him into your life.
"Those guys" are guys and guys often don't know what to say, y'know'hat I mean?
And it could be someone who's bad news.


Keep your own standards high.

 

[metta]

Same here. Except I always tell them I'm a chick...mainly b/c I want them to stop. Why aren't people more afraid of contacting people they don't know? Stranger danger!

Here's a little tip for you fellas, if you want to get offers for IMing, pic sharing, hook ups, or cam to cam adventures, change your oreintation to straight and your status to dating. It seems to get me a lot of offers.

What's really fun is when I get them.

I always wonder if I should write back and pretend to be a gay man

I have been a member for years and that has never happened to me. The straight women are getting more action on this gay web site than I am... ...actually...I'm kinda relieved.

 

[Croynan]

I just logged on and got a PM from a JUBber I don't know. The message was short: "You interested in playing?" I checked out the profile, he just started today and made no posts so far. It does say he's single. I can also assume that he's lives in the Phoenix area as well. Besides that, pretty much know nothing about him.

I don't get those kinds of guys, why would they expect a response?

B.this guy has just told you all you need to know about him. he does not need to say any more. if he thinks this is an appropriate way to introduce himself for what ever he has in mindthey i would seriously refrain from any further contact with the individual.

he may live in Phoenix and all that other stuff that goes with him, but he has made his impression on you and obviously it is not positive.

why bother.

eM.

 

[Alpha1851]

I have been a member for years and that has never happened to me. The straight women are getting more action on this gay web site than I am... ...actually...I'm kinda relieved.

I'm telling ya Metta you need to change your orientation to "straight." All of us females have received sexy invitations at one time of another and the only thing we have in common is the "straight" tag under our names. I suppose they figure that we're closet cases or something and they want to help us see the light--through anonymous fucking.

The weirdest/scariest PM I've ever received was from a young JUBBER who wanted to be dominated. Now, I know I'm competitive but I have no idea as to what I wrote that would make this fella think I was into leather, bondage, fisting, wearing a cock ring, etc. It was very graphic and detailed. I think this was the only time that I didn't try to clarify my gender. I just couldn't bring myself to contact him.

See what you're missing out on Metta. Actually, I'll bet you'll get those PMs now that you've posted that you haven't received any in the past. I can't wait to hear all about it.

 

[Atomw7]

I usually get people IMing me in Yahoo Messenger saying they saw me from JUB (Screen name is in my profile), then they ask my age and if I have any pics to see what I look like.

 

[RationalLunacy]

Did you ask him what he wanted to play?

Bridge? Canasta? Rummy?

 

[Spellbound]

This happened to me once. We chatted on AIM for a while, but after that I cut off contact. It was weird.

 

[G-Lexington]

I've only had it happen once. The guy (assumptive) didn't just say "Wanna play", though - he was pretty graphic. I figured he was just really horny, and was looking to get his rocks off, so I answered in kind. After exchanging about two or three PMs in ten minutes, they stopped. I'm assuming "mission accomplished". I didn't mind lending a metaphorical hand - it was kinda fun actually. And, not surprisingly, I've never heard from the guy again. That doesn't bother me either.

Lex

 

[Soyboy]

Got this just last night........

"Hey,
You seem pretty hott.
You up for a little one on one sex session?
Message me back cutie."

Wait.... what?!?!?! I clicked to his profile.... he's been a member since last year. Never made a post.

How do I even reply to something like that?

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>How do I even reply to something like that?

How do you WANT to reply to something like that?

Are you not interested? Then PM back. "Wow, that's really flattering, but I'm really not into that sort of thing. Thanks for the compliment, though!"

If you are interested, PM back. Let him know you're interested, let him know your parameters - text? voice? still cam? video? in person? - and see what he'd be interested in doing.

Lex

 

[treanir]

How do I even reply to something like that?

Door #1: you don't. The delete button is so very convenient.
Door #2: you reply 'no thanks'

Either option's fine. And take it as a compliment.

 

[Atomw7]

Exactly why i took my yahoo out of my profile - because people would do that, and then ask me to cam like i'm just some guy that lives with his clothes off.

Well I walk around in my boxers, but I wouldn't turn my webcam on for them.

 

[GayBoiJared]

i got one from a 19 yo dude a few days after christmas, he musta still been feeling "merry" cause i tracked the only 2 posts he's made, and both were requesting someone to fuck him

he said we should get together for casual sex when he returns from his holiday. kinda surprised me, but i suppose not everyone joins jub for the stimulating conversation

i didn't respond to his pm, random hookups jus aren't my thing.

 

[metta]

I'm telling ya Metta you need to change your orientation to "straight." All of us females have received sexy invitations at one time of another and the only thing we have in common is the "straight" tag under our names. I suppose they figure that we're closet cases or something and they want to help us see the light--through anonymous fucking.

The weirdest/scariest PM I've ever received was from a young JUBBER who wanted to be dominated. Now, I know I'm competitive but I have no idea as to what I wrote that would make this fella think I was into leather, bondage, fisting, wearing a cock ring, etc. It was very graphic and detailed. I think this was the only time that I didn't try to clarify my gender. I just couldn't bring myself to contact him.

See what you're missing out on Metta. Actually, I'll bet you'll get those PMs now that you've posted that you haven't received any in the past. I can't wait to hear all about it.

Haha....I doubt that would happen. I don't have any sexual comments in my profile. I do mention that I'm a vegetarian which usually makes people run the other way. You should see the look on peoples faces when I tell them that I don't drink. Some people have given me a look like I'm a freak of nature and they could not comprehend how that is even a possibility. It is always kind of funny how people treat you when you don't fit the so called 'norm.' Oh well...I am what I am....

 

[Alpha1851]

There are a lot of lonely people out there. And none of us sees ourselves as doing something weird or inappropriate.

You can choose not to respond or simply to respond, "Thanks, but no thanks."

Wow, that just made me feel like a total Bitch and you're definitely right. It really isn't inappropriate or weird to PM someone for anonymous sex it just catches me off guard--even when it's a bi guy who knows I'm a female. I could definitely learn to handle it w/ more class.

Metta, it's really cool that you're such a self-less, compassionate person! I'm having a hard enough time giving up ice cream and thoughtless speaking for Lent. I can't imagine sacrificing as much as you do for the greater good--that's pretty hot!

 

[RationalLunacy]

i suppose not everyone joins jub for the stimulating conversation

What!! No way!!

 

[paboy67]

Got this just last night........

"Hey,
You seem pretty hott.
You up for a little one on one sex session?
Message me back cutie."

Wait.... what?!?!?! I clicked to his profile.... he's been a member since last year. Never made a post.

How do I even reply to something like that?

hey Irish,

you just tell him that you are about to marry me and that we are too busy fucking like rabbits for you to take any time out for him

I presume that you noticed that in his message you were hott with two T's

you wanna put pics of your hott litte self up on Jub - expect some guys to be creaming their pants over you and take it as a compliment - just say "no thanks' to him and yes to me

 

[Jory]

Me getting a PM like that........