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So, I just gave blood today...

JonHCA

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...and honestly, it was one of the scariest experiences of my life. :lol:

The Red Cross was having a drive across the street from my work, so I went over during my lunch with a girl I work with. I really don't like needles or blood, but I figured I'd get over it for a good cause. She kept telling me that it was really simple, that she had given blood many times, and nothing had ever gone wrong with her.

They gave me the preliminary tests: checked my blood pressure, great, checked my iron levels which they were surprised to find were pretty high considering I don't eat meat. I lie down, they prep my arm, and they start drawing blood. Everything's good for a while as the woman tried to make small talk, presumably to distract me from my leaking bodily fluid. It was going just fine until my left arm started to tingle. I let them know, and they told me it was because they had to much pressure on my arm. They took off the blood pressure monitor, but as soon as they did I started to feel incredibly nauseated and lightheaded. My left arm went completely numb, and my right arm followed soon after. Next my stomach started to tingle and I lost the feeling in my legs. Then I saw my skin go pale white, and my hands and fingers started to cramp together to the point where I couldn't pull my fingers apart to hold the can of juice they were trying to get me to drink.

With the needle out and a couple cans of orange and cranberry juice later, my body started to calm down a bit. I was terrified and shaking throughout the entire ordeal, but they did manage to get the minimum amount of blood out of me, so it wasn't completely pointless. At this point I'm wondering if my body reacted that way due to them removing the blood pressure monitor, or perhaps I was too thin to give blood. Regardless and suffice it to say, I will never ever give blood again. :mrgreen:
 
Well, what a lesson you've learned :lol:..."That's what you get for helping people >8|". No, but really, congratulations on giving blood :). I'm honestly just not a fan of needles or seeing my own blood. My school hasn't had a drive in a while so I haven't had the opportunity to chicken out since last year.

lol, no kidding! That'll teach me to try to do anything good for people.

If they knew you were gay, they probably won't have taken blood form you.

Did they ask you if you were gay?

They did not ask me if I was gay, but the computer questionnaire did ask me if I had sex with a man.
 
My first experience giving blood was fine. My second experience was the worst :( The woman kept tugging on my vein and the blood wouldn't come out. The tingly feeling made me panic. My last experience was due to my mom pestering me. I donated blood and the experience wasn't that bad as the one before.
 
If they knew you were gay, they probably won't have taken blood form you.

Did they ask you if you were gay?

Why do they do that? They have to look it over 6 ways from sunday anyway.

Good job John! You probably are to thin I think, you seem like a tiny guy. (On the outside anyway)
I used to be a blood doner and I never had any problems like that. Maybe you just need to relax a little?;)
 
I didn't realize that being gay was still an issue as far as donating blood goes. I didn't hear anything about that when my school had a blood drive and as far as I know we have a rather large gay population (that I still have yet to tap into *cries*)...

Aw there there.(*8*)
 
I'm sorry to hear that it went badly for you. It is rare to have complications, but you are possibly too thin for it as you surmised.

I began when I was in college, and loved it. The only bad experience I had was that first year when an English nurse missed the vein so badly that I developed a knot from the clot. Honestly, I thought she was going to nail me to the arm rest before she stopped waving that damned needle around in there.

But, I gave over five gallons in the years since. My blood type is very rare in the US, only 1 in 167 people have it, AB Neg.

Sadly, after becoming partnered briefly in Alaska, I immediately disqualified myself from giving again until the Red Cross changes their rules about men who have had sex with other men.

I feel disrespected as a citizen now, and disallowed to be charitable in that life-giving manner.

Thanks for your condolences. :) A friend actually brought up that I might be too thin, but I do think that might have been it. Luckily my veins have always been pretty easy to find, so I've never experienced any issues with that.
 
If you answered "yes" to the "are you a male who has had sex with a male" question, they won't use your blood.

The rule about gay men donating blood is actually a government regulation. They revisited it last year and decided to keep it.
 
I always really enjoyed giving blood (this was before I finally fucked a dude) because I was a pre-nursing student and was able to talk to tall the other pre-nursing students/CNAs/Nursing students/Nurses who would be working there and exchange stories and just chat with people in my field.

+ free awesome food after (they always had portasub sandwiches at the place I'd go to)
 
i applaud you for giving blood.

i haven't given blood myself in close to 10 years and i'm rather sad about that.

i just can't abide their excluding gays and for their discrimination i felt i had to stop.
 
My guess is a combination of your aversion to needles/blood and the drop in blood pressure caused what you felt.

Too bad, really. Because I like to skip the OJ/cookies and head to the bar for a drink or three. After donating blood, that first shot hits hard!!
 
Everything's good for a while as the woman tried to make small talk, presumably to distract me from my leaking bodily fluid. It was going just fine until my left arm started to tingle. I let them know, and they told me it was because they had to much pressure on my arm. They took off the blood pressure monitor, but as soon as they did I started to feel incredibly nauseated and lightheaded. My left arm went completely numb, and my right arm followed soon after. Next my stomach started to tingle and I lost the feeling in my legs. Then I saw my skin go pale white, and my hands and fingers started to cramp together to the point where I couldn't pull my fingers apart to hold the can of juice they were trying to get me to drink.

I think you are probably just squeamish about such things. It's a very noble thing to donate blood........ (*8*)
 
my first experience with drawing blood wasnt bad either. i did it in my high school blood drive, and i was done with the entire process in about 15 minutes. i havent done so since then because right after that i got my first tattoo, and then got a boyfriend.

i still dont think its right that they use having sex with another man as a basis for the blood being able to be used though. they already prescreen it for everything else anyway, so i dont see the harm in it. but until they decide to change that, i wont be donating blood.
 
jon, I'm also quite thin, and I recently had blood tests for literally 20 different things at once, I swear to god the nurse took like half of my blood. When she was doing the blood cultures I could hear the blood dripping into the liquid that was already in the container *shudders*. I had the same feelings you did (light headed / nauseous etc), I just assumed it was something that happened to everybody.

Here is a video by a gay Youtuber that's about the gay blood ban; I really like the way he went about it, he's done some amazing videos about the trevor project, too.

[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PSHJ0AVKH2s[/ame]
 
I feel disrespected as a citizen now, and disallowed to be charitable in that life-giving manner.

Maybe I/we am/are bitter. But I don't give blood for exactly that reason. And it infuriates me even more when I discuss this with other people. Even people who in general are accepting of gays see this as completely justified. My mother once told me that this is a legitimate reason! :grrr: But when I asked her about the other questions on the questionaire, or to be exact about the one whether you have visited africa recently and why she thinks that this is on the list .. she was suddenly angry "just because someone was in africa, even when he had sex that doesn't mean that he got infected with HIV!". I stayed silence for a while until she realized what she just said.
 
I like to quote brian kinney on this one; "What about all those straight studs and bitches who fuck around!"

Straight people are just as likely now to have HIV as gay people but cuz it hit us first and so hard its still "the gay disease"
 
I'm an usual donnor, no ban for gays in Spain :)

I only had a little problem once, when a nurse couldn't find my vein, it take a little longer and more painful than usual but not that bad.
 
Jon.. you did a good thing by sharing your blood with someone that may really need it someday.
It may have been a bit tough for you.. but what you did was offer someone the hope of life.

Next time it will be easier..
You were generous man.. and I commend you for your thoughts of offereing that gift to someone, someone whom you will never know.

You are a good guy man..
(*8*)
 
I didn't realize that being gay was still an issue as far as donating blood goes. I didn't hear anything about that when my school had a blood drive and as far as I know we have a rather large gay population (that I still have yet to tap into *cries*)...

I thought it was just because they wanted to make sure you weren't HIV +...although women can be HIV + as well... I remember one of the questionnaires asked who you've had sex with and if it was with/without a condom. You'd have to circle the answer. But I think they test the blood before administering it anyway.
 
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