The music is one example in which disparate ages can be an issue.
Personally, if I were involved with a much younger man, I'd feel like a dirty old man.
And though a few years back it looked like that's what was happening for me, I got burnt very VERY badly and am somewhat leery to put any trust in a younger man in terms of serious, nonfriendship relationship.
He'd better be very sure of what he wants and what he's after. I don't want to be a father figure as I'm already a father. And I'm certainly no sugar daddy.
And back to the topic at hand.
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Alright I'll get back on topic once I respond to this.
That's not true Pianist. My sister had a teacher who was 40 or something and he likes music like 3DG, Linkin Park, Slipknot and would play that music in her class sometimes.
Although I don't think my ex would really like my kind of music. But I in no way believe that it did not work out between my ex and me because he was older and I was younger. It's where we are in life. If I was out of college and know what I want in life then it would work. It still might in a few years. But right now college is the most important thing which is coming at me soon.
Some do feel like that. I am not sure why you should if you like a guy it shouldn't matter how old you and him are.
I'm sorry you had a bad experience with a younger guy but I believe that a younger and older relationship can work. It just depends WHERE both of them are in terms of life.
There might be a point in the older guy's life where he just wants sex and nothing more and the younger guy wants something more. In that case it wouldn't work.
That is also part of the problem since society will judge younger older relationships as the younger guy using the older guy which is sometimes true but not all the time. There can be true love in it and not just lust or the older guy taking care of the younger guy. Hell it might be the younger guy taking care of the older guy.
That is the problem in some of the relationships as well. The younger guy might not know what he wants. But I'm sure there are some younger guys out there who are sure of what they want and aren't looking to break someone's heart.
But I don't think that younger and older relationships don't work. There are some disadvantages to it. But there are pros and cons to every kind of relationship.
And right now I actually know what I'm saying. And I believe that if both parties are willing and wanting and ready then a younger and older relationship works.
I won't ever believe that they don't work.
Now back on topic.
I'm really sorry that he hasn't called you yet Alley. It happens though. And if a guy doesn't call then you just gotta move on. Even if you did talk and things felt like they were going a good. If a guy doesn't take the time to call you then they aren't ready at the moment for a relationship or they are a liar.
Got into a car accident. Yeah right. Freaking bastard was online the next day chatting with other men.
Tsch.
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